TTC

[hmn]

this message is long, so plz read it to the end.i am desperate to get pregnant. i have a 2 yrs old son, after one month of marriage, i got preg with him without even planning. my preg was normal except for the group b strep. when my water broke, i went to the hospital an they gave me antibiotics and i was going to give birth naturally but ended up with a c-section coz the babies beats went own.
Now, i haVe been TTC since then and with no hope, i went to the dr. a year ago for a check up an he said everything is normal i can start planning for a baby.

before even getting married i used to have pain on my sides, pain that made me not able to stand, i went to the dr. and she sai that i have (water sacs on the ovaries) i don't know what u call them. she gave me pills(birth control pills) but the pain continued. i went for another dr. and told him about the medications, he was surprised because what i was taking was vitamins that would make the sacs grow in size. and starte all over again, this time it worked, my perios returned to be regular. before a week from getting married i went for a check up and he said that the sacs are 2cms so i have to take the medicine for another 3 months(birth control pills) i told my fiance then and he told me to see another dr. i went to a third dr. (my current OB/GYN) and he told me that i shouldn't worry aND i don't have to take any medicine and this is what i did, and after a month from getting married i got preg.
NOW, the problem is that i'm worried that the sacs have come back and this is preventing me from getting preg. what shall i do? i need some advice? i am passing thru a hard time, and i'm feeling guilty that i'm n ot able to make my husband happy.

[hmn]

i was wondering what might lead to secondary infertility. is there a specific reason? as u said if my husband loves me he will stand by my side. i'm sure he would but the problem is not him, the problem is his parents. they keep nagging and asking why i'm not preg, and even if i say the dr. has seen me and said i have no problems and i can get preg, their answer was  change the dr. he doesn't understand and the second answer was if u don't get preg by a month we'll going to get him a 2nd wife,. my husband says don't care for their responses. as if i don't want to get preg or i'll be sad in case i found i';m preg. i don't know what to  do? i keep surfing the internet about why i'm not getting preg, symptoms of early preg, miscarriages........, i became obsessed about this issue

[LadyDy6340]

First off, dont feel bad about anything. Maybe its not meant for the both of you to have a child right at this moment. If you took the meds the first time go back to your doctor and find out whether or not the sacs are bac and if they are take the necessary meds for them . if it really shows that you cant have any more kids theres always fertility pills. I understand that you want to make your husband happy, but if he loves you that way he say he do he will stand by your side no matter what happens. from the beginning to the end. you too have to work together. just dont stress yourself about it and in due time everything will fall together. Good Luck.. And prayer helps alot too.