The vagina is made to stretch enormously (think childbirth) but only under certain conditions. Simply, the more aroused you are, the more stretchy the vagina becomes. If your partner isn't hugely turning you on, you shouldn't be having sex with that person, at least at that time. It should go without saying that women deserve sexual enjoyment as much as men, and need to stop seeing the problem as necessarily something inherently wrong with their bodies when it's really incompatibility or infection (which can be passed from the partner, who needs to be treated so he stops infecting you) or mental/emotional issues based in past experience. And women really need to stop martyring themselves for the sake of their partner's pleasure. (Ask yourself, would your partner do the same?)
Me and my boyfriend have had sex like everyday but today just isn't the same my vagina is super tight and really sore can someone please help me .
I had this issue at the start of my relationship with my boyfriend of 6+ years. I would be so tight it hurt us both. It turns out it was a phsycological problem rather than physioligical. Even though I thought I was comfortable there was something stopping me from being completely relaxed which meant I was tense down there. We managed to get past this by some mental preparation. We would take things slow, kiss etc and build up to it, get naked and take deep slow breaths. Once a bit more relaxed he would get ready to enter me from on top and whisper sweet things in my ear and slowly slide in. It may seem like hassle but it made each time so passionate and really felt like 'making love'. After a while the problem went away and 6 years on we still have the most amazing sex.
I hope my experience can help you.
My vagina was my problem. I’ve had a lot of sex growing up but I don’t think that’s the reason..I could’t ask my friends about it because we’re too close and it would be embarrassing, I decided to come on here.. after came here i heard about the myotaut from google. Myotaut serum is one of the best way to make vagina lips smaller again I also recently purchased this product about a month ago, it is been great. I’m surprised that it really works.
Sounds like you haven't been in sexually active very long. Or just starting out. Comfortable sex takes patience and understanding on both parties. Always have him go down on you until you climax first. That will loosen it up a bit. Then Use plenty of lube and get on top that way you can control the angle and depth of penetration. Just hope he can hold out
I guess I feel a bit better that it isn't just me. We tried for the third time tonight to have sex and all this time I thought it was the condom causing problems but now we think I am just too tight. I'm so disheartened and I honestly started to cry a little bit. I want to be with him sexually but I just don't know what else to do. I get pretty wet and the condoms we were using are lubricated, so I didn't think we'd need lube. But maybe that will help. I'm not sure. :\