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Vagina too tight!!! Someone help!!!
Hi, i was wondering how to make the vagina just a little bit less tight. I know a lot of people tell me that guys like it when its tight, but mine is just a little bit too much. Whenever I have sex it takes my boyfriend a while to get in me and i almost always end up getting a tear because of it.I was wondering if there is any exercise or somthing that anyone might know about that decreases the tightness?? Thanks in advance!!
I thought i was the only one going through this problem!
i'm 17, and I've had sex before, but all a sudden i have tightened up like there is no tomorrow!
i was dating a guy and we wanted to have sex so bad but it wouldn't fit, it would be impossible to get it in and sometimes it hurt him,
he was very understanding about it,
when i try to fit one finger in, its uncomfortable but doesn't hurt,
when i try two fingers, it hurts so much,
what i think for some girls is maybe its a "physiological problem"
its the problem i have, maybe from child hood that won't let you get hurt again, so it tenses every time you go to put something in there,
I've tried the lube, dildos all that, nothing seems to work, I'm going to try this banana situation & and fingering, hopefully this works!
and i also never have had an organism, i can't stand it, i want to have a normal sexaul life,
& i have been seeing this guy and he wants to finger me and all that, but i don't know if i will be able to :((
someone please help me out, this is serious, its one of my biggest insecurities & its terrible :(
i'm 17, and I've had sex before, but all a sudden i have tightened up like there is no tomorrow!
i was dating a guy and we wanted to have sex so bad but it wouldn't fit, it would be impossible to get it in and sometimes it hurt him,
he was very understanding about it,
when i try to fit one finger in, its uncomfortable but doesn't hurt,
when i try two fingers, it hurts so much,
what i think for some girls is maybe its a "physiological problem"
its the problem i have, maybe from child hood that won't let you get hurt again, so it tenses every time you go to put something in there,
I've tried the lube, dildos all that, nothing seems to work, I'm going to try this banana situation & and fingering, hopefully this works!
and i also never have had an organism, i can't stand it, i want to have a normal sexaul life,
& i have been seeing this guy and he wants to finger me and all that, but i don't know if i will be able to :((
someone please help me out, this is serious, its one of my biggest insecurities & its terrible :(
One rather common cause of painful intercourse is Vaginismus (see: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaginismus).
This is usually a combination of both physical and psychological factors that causes the vagina to tighten involuntarily when inserting something into the vagina. It manifests differently for different people - some girls only experience it during intercourse, others will struggle with it even if they try to insert their own fingers.
Patience and calm is the best way to approach it. Buy pthalate-free dildos of various sizes, start out small (with maybe just a finger at first) and gradually work your way up (not in a single session either, could take months of regular 'exercise') as you get more comfortable with the smaller sizes. Don't force yourself - if it starts to hurt, back off and relax a bit more. Try to make these sessions fun and relaxing, it'll help a lot.
Other causes are possible too. STIs may cause pain. Another possiblity is an allergy (such as a latex allergy). Most commercial lubes contain Glycerin, which some people are sensitive to, so try a glycerin-free water-based lube instead (I'd recommend "Gun Oil H2O").
Good luck. Take your time, relax, don't blame yourself, and try to see this as one of the most 'fun' exercises you'll ever need to do!
This is usually a combination of both physical and psychological factors that causes the vagina to tighten involuntarily when inserting something into the vagina. It manifests differently for different people - some girls only experience it during intercourse, others will struggle with it even if they try to insert their own fingers.
Patience and calm is the best way to approach it. Buy pthalate-free dildos of various sizes, start out small (with maybe just a finger at first) and gradually work your way up (not in a single session either, could take months of regular 'exercise') as you get more comfortable with the smaller sizes. Don't force yourself - if it starts to hurt, back off and relax a bit more. Try to make these sessions fun and relaxing, it'll help a lot.
Other causes are possible too. STIs may cause pain. Another possiblity is an allergy (such as a latex allergy). Most commercial lubes contain Glycerin, which some people are sensitive to, so try a glycerin-free water-based lube instead (I'd recommend "Gun Oil H2O").
Good luck. Take your time, relax, don't blame yourself, and try to see this as one of the most 'fun' exercises you'll ever need to do!
I know what you mean. Lube is not the answer. It literally will not go in me, I am SO tight that it phyiscally hurts when the end goes in but that is as far as it will go as he cant get it in any more past that. Not with lube, not in water and not with relazing. I dont know why though, think im going to look into an operation to cut the skin making it so tight! I know its not a good step to take but maybe look inot it if its really getting you that down.
listen if God aint give Adam and Eve lube then why we use it, my ***** is tight to but i found that some peoples ***** is tighter than mine, i am only 14 and have had sex multiple times and i find that if you would just relax and let the dudes work its easier to insert his **** into you, so just relax and chill out!! put on some music if it helps, but i found that if you do it in water it helps a WHOLE lot!!! that's just my thoughts :)
hey, i am having the same problem, i have been to the drs and they have sent me for tests and the reply from the hospital dr was, (who was a male of course) i dont know why your complaining
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