What can I do?

[Emilydancer]

Hi so a week ago I was messing around with my boyfriend for the first time he was fingering me and then put it in once and took it back out, but then continued to finger me ( this was my first time at anything) ever since I'm getting a sting when I pee and feel the urge to keep needing to pee I'm also struggling to have a poo, and I'm now a day late on my period, is this normal or is there something I can do? I'm 17 and would appreciate any help I can get

[specialmom]

Hi there!  Sorry for your discomfort.  No, this isn't really normal.  Something that comes to mind which is a little gross sounding but happens is if he was any where near your anus and got some fecal matter on his finger and then that got in your urethra during fingering.  This would lead to a urninary tract infection which has what you are describing--- a burning/hurting when you are eleviating yourself of urine.  A frequent urge to urinate.  Those are UTI symptoms.  Now if it is just stinging when you pee---  you may have a small cut and the urine is stinging it.  That happens too and heals on its own.  A UTI needs to be treated with antibiotics.  But the good news is that non sexual activity leads to uti's as well so you can go to the doctor and not need to discuss the fingering.  You aren't pregnant---  so obviously don't worry about that.  Hope this helped.  good luck