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Who's my baby's father ?

hey this is my first pregnancy and i'm knid've confused . well i had sex with my ex on february 11th 2009 but i got my period on march 28th 2009 . but in april my boyfriend and we had sex on the 9th and 12th but the condom broke on the 12th ? so would could my baby's father be ?
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being that you got a period between the two men, should say its your boyfriends. however youdid not give nearly enough information to help...like when are you acutally due? without that its only a guess that its your bfs simply because you got a period but if it was not an actual period..it could be either mans. good to get a dna test
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well my doctor says that i'm due the first of the year. i really didnt get sick until the end of april and the beginning of may thats when i though i mite be pregnant . but then when i went to get my ultrasound last week she told me that i was due in november and that i'm 25 weeks and 5 days when i just started showing last month . but at the bottom of my ultrasound my ga is 19 weeks and 5 days so could my ultrasound be wrong ?
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if you are due jan 1 2010... you would be 20 weeks 2 days...more than what your gestation age says. it canbeoff a little.

something is wrong. first you are due in november  then now your due in jaunary. thats the difference of two months.


and if you are due in novmeber you would be anywhere from almost 25 to 29 weeks pregnant.

your doctor should explain the results to you
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thats what i said thats why i'm switching doctor's because how can i be 25 weeks when i just started showing and my cousin is due in november and she having a girl and she way bigger than me and plus everyone that i know tells me that anit no way i'm due in novemeber and i'm this small .
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people show at differen times so when your cousin is due...that doesnt really matter
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even if i missed my period in april and may becaasue that's when i really started getting sick and my breast became really sore and what not . then why does my ga on my ultrasound say 19weeks and 5 days
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If you had a normal period in March then it's likely that you got pregnant in April.  And the doctors EDD suggests this as that would make you due early Jan.

The doctor could've made a mistake with the dates ie confused patients.  I'd be going with the date on the ultrasound and changing doctors.  It would be more likely that the doctor is wrong rather than the ultrasound.  Also the date comes from the measurements that the radiologist did while you were having the ultrasound as opposed to what you tell them.  They can vary by up to a week without changing the EDD.  If it's out by more than this then they go by the ultrasound dates.

Women show at different times and the fact that your cousin is bigger than you means nothing.  Also when you get stick is different for different women.  I know people who get sick the day their period is due, others a week or two later and some a week or two later again.  Then there are the women that sailed through the first trimester only to feel sick in the 2nd or 3rd.

It's probably your boyfriend who's the baby's father.  But if you want to know for sure then you need a dna test.
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i think thats what i'm going to do to just change doctors becasue my next appointment is septemeber 2nd and i have to drink that orange stuff and everyone is saying i'm not even that far to drink that stuff yet and i ask my aunt who works at the other doctor's office and  she was like your not suppose to drink that until your at least 26 weeks . so i'm just going to swicth my doctor's
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well member you can always have up to three periods while being pregnat. so it all depends  how many months or weeks u are
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you do not get your period when pregnant.
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you can get your period. up to 3 times. most of the time you dont. but thats y most women dont no their preg cause they had  a period and when they find out theyare their like what im 3 months im 2 months
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i had periods for two months with both my babies
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you only get your period if you have a special condition. STOP confusing her more.

you can bleed. if you got a period you would not be pregnant. yes you can bleed much like a period but its not a period.
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well i went to my doctor today and i told him my story and that i got my period in february and march but he is saying that i'm due in november and i really dont understand how wehn i got my period becasue you dont get a period if your pregnant i know that for a fact . i'm so confused i dont know what to do .
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i guess u betta listen to kim1989 she must have a degree since she telling everyone else they wrong.  If u have not got ur second opioion then u need to then if says the same thing then maybe he is right.  I didnt show till my last month with both my kids both where over 7lbs but after i had them i didnt have much weight to get off  it was all baby
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i need to but people tell me that you dont always have a baby on your due . so i'll just see what happens . i'm still not to sure what's going to happen and if he's right . i'll just wait until my appointment on september 2nd to see if anything has changed .
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I had sex with a man on 12-20-09 and the rubber broke. I had sex with my boyfriend Jan, Feb, and march I'm due Dec 5, 10 I went to the doctor April 1,10th and he said I was 4 weeks and some days this is my 1st baby so please help me
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