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Will my vagina be tight again for sex?
I lost my virginity last December, Im 47. My first time I did bleed and I felt several times uncomfortable and it hurt a bit for several moments when the guy was thrusting me. I guess the guy wanted so much to have sex with me that in the heat of the moment we did not even do much foreplay before intercourse. I know that was wrong but ok the time had passed and Im back to normal again.
So assuming Im no longer a virgin due that I bleed, I also assume my hymen was torn although physically I cant see if it is torn or not.
Since December the guy and I had not seen each other again but we both had agree we will see each other eventually, we havent not schedule date or time still.
I was just wonder or maybe Im too naive but I want to know if my vagina will be tight again if I have sex again and also because so far after that my first time I havent had sex again and it could take months to have sex again with this same guy until I see him again.
I read that the vagina tissues retracts and go back to his original form after having sex, until the next time a lady has sex it again will expand. Is this true? If that is the case so then I will feel pain one more time if I have sex again as my vagina lets put it this way "it has not been used for a long time and it could look like if I am a vrgin again " for the lack of having sex often, knowing that it may take me some months again to have sex one more time.
How can I prevent to feel uncomfortable, and will I bleed again? Like I said the guy and I could be having sex again until we see each other one more time but is not going to be in 2 weeks it coul dbe more.
The first time I tight my legs and híps doing missionary. The guy di dnot put my legs over his shoulders he just grab my thighs and there were moments he was uncomfortable and a little bit mad or dissapointed doing it cause he could not penétrate the way he wanted. I think he felt I was uncomfortable and I did not enjoy it much. This happen in the 2 rounds we have sex that day
I heard that the more you have sex your vagina starts to become less tighter each time but in my case, I dont see this guy often in order to have sex with him more often and be more used to it.
The guy even told me "We have to do it again so this time you will enjoy it more"
So assuming Im no longer a virgin due that I bleed, I also assume my hymen was torn although physically I cant see if it is torn or not.
Since December the guy and I had not seen each other again but we both had agree we will see each other eventually, we havent not schedule date or time still.
I was just wonder or maybe Im too naive but I want to know if my vagina will be tight again if I have sex again and also because so far after that my first time I havent had sex again and it could take months to have sex again with this same guy until I see him again.
I read that the vagina tissues retracts and go back to his original form after having sex, until the next time a lady has sex it again will expand. Is this true? If that is the case so then I will feel pain one more time if I have sex again as my vagina lets put it this way "it has not been used for a long time and it could look like if I am a vrgin again " for the lack of having sex often, knowing that it may take me some months again to have sex one more time.
How can I prevent to feel uncomfortable, and will I bleed again? Like I said the guy and I could be having sex again until we see each other one more time but is not going to be in 2 weeks it coul dbe more.
The first time I tight my legs and híps doing missionary. The guy di dnot put my legs over his shoulders he just grab my thighs and there were moments he was uncomfortable and a little bit mad or dissapointed doing it cause he could not penétrate the way he wanted. I think he felt I was uncomfortable and I did not enjoy it much. This happen in the 2 rounds we have sex that day
I heard that the more you have sex your vagina starts to become less tighter each time but in my case, I dont see this guy often in order to have sex with him more often and be more used to it.
The guy even told me "We have to do it again so this time you will enjoy it more"
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