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am I a virgin or pregnant?

Hi! I think I had sex but I'm not sure.it was just the tip and I wasn't penetrated fully. He tried pushing past the lips if my Virgina but stopped cause it hurt too much. But there was a tiny spot of blood on the bed and now I'm supposed to see my period today but I'm not sure anymore cause I've been reading that  pre-*** can get you pregnant. I'm so confused. Am I still a virgin or am I pregnant.
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Not pregnant, no. But definitely use a condom next time, and to make sure it doesn't hurt, use lube and make sure there's a good amount of foreplay. It can also be good to start out just using fingers and tongue. It's not actually "supposed" to hurt or bleed. If that happens, it's because there's not enough moisture or you're too tense. That's the time to slow down and be more careful.

Also personally I would say that virginity is not so easily defined as "penis inside = no longer virgin". When YOU feel that you've had sex properly for the first time, that's when you're not. And it's not really that important anyway.

Stay safe and good luck!
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You are not pregnant, some women bleed on their first time having sex it is normal. If it makes you feel better you can pick up a preg test from the store.
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Okay.  Thank you.  I feel better now. So all I have to go is not worry...can I take vitamin c to make my period come faster or there's no need now... Cause I'm two days late.
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Hey there, i lost my virginity last year and had a pregnancy scare, there is nothing to worry about. sex hurts abit at first but use plenty of lube and go slowly, the blood is just from your hymen tearing which will not hurt so just put down a towel and always use a condom. you arent a virgin if you have had sex and putting a penis inside you counts. there is no chance of you being pregnant if he doesnt *** inside you but always use a condom to be safe xx hope this helps
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Don't worry you are not pregnant if your sexual partner did not go inside you all the way you can't be pregnant he probably just popped your cherry a little bit it happened to me before you need to relax and not stress because that will make your period start late
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This also helped me! I have never had sex but I was worrying that my boyfriends precum could've went through his clothes into mine and rubbed against my part and got me pregnant. I've been stressing so much about it my period is late!
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