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[hiii]

ok so im 17 and when my boyfriend and i tried to have sex the frist time i bled really badly. We tried like a month later and the same thing happened. what does this mean? im too scared to tell my parents or anyone

[Sweet87]

So if it was your first time then its completely reasonable for you to have bleed. How much was it the second time? Was it like your period, or worse?

[rio_reason]

It's ok, it happens.  Something you're going to have to learn to live with probably.  A lot of people have sex while they're on their period because sex makes them menstruate, like me for example.  I'm 21 and have never ever had a regular period - and had to learn to live with teaching my partners that it's just something that women have to deal with sometimes.  My current boyfriend of 7 months is completely understanding, but when I was your age it was much more difficult.  It's easier once you've been with the person a while.  Put old dark towels on the bed if you need to.  

If it's painful, make an appointment with your doctor and tell your parents you're going to get allergy meds/getting severe cramps checked out.  I had severe cramps that turned out to be ovarian cysts (extremely painful) and was able to use that as an excuse fairly often (follow-ups, etc).

Good luck, I hope things work out for you.