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feeling really down

First of all how is everybody doing? My baby shower is tomorrow & every since yesterday my friends having been telling me they can't make it(i called them to make sure they had directions to my mil housethey didnt call me )it was kinda last minute like 2 weeks notice but i asked everyone first before planning would they be able to make it & all said yes now looks like none of my friends are coming which are very few & my feelings are really hurt df says not to worry bout it cause his family is still coming, my mom and my sister & thats all that matters which i know he right but my feelings are still hurt just dnt know what i could have done. And they keeping saying i will still get u something anyway its not all about the gifts i just wanted all my friends and family there for support & love. I keep thinking maybe they are tricking me and will suprise me and be there cause its just so weird for all of them to say they cant make it when just last week everyone was game. Well just needed vent a little. Soon we will be seeing are precious babies i am so excited : )
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1510239 tn?1364927956
glad to hear :)
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726324 tn?1324074610
I told you you would have a good time anyway! Glad you enjoyed yourself in the end :)
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Thanx ladies i had a great time yesterday even though none of my friends showed & when i called didnt answer but my family & df family came & we all had a wonderful time & got lots of stuff. My sis was a great host we had plenty of fun games for everyone to play even the men had a good time so im all : )'s
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726324 tn?1324074610
I had exactly the same problem! I asked all my friends when they were available and gave them plenty of time and in the end only 1 of them came! I still had my family there though and ended up having a great time anyway.  A girly get together would be a good idea as well though. You could make it a mini baby shower.

Try not to feel too down about it. Im sure u will end up having a great time anyway, i did in the end! x
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Thanx that a good idea i might suggest that for next week and see how that goes.
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1706917 tn?1307771301
I understand how you feel. Just a suggestion. Have a girl's get together with all your friends. Explain to them that you want to hangout with them for a while before the baby comes. That it will harder to have that "Girls Time" when your precious addition comes. Your true friends will uinderstand and appreciate your honesty.
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