Let me start off by saying I would love my son NO MATTER WHAT!!! and would always be accepting of him, as I truely think he is the most amazing person I know!!!!! Anyway, he's 11, has ADHD, good kid, shy... So he came out one night and threw a note at me and ran off. It's said something along the lines of..."I don't know how to tell you that I am gay". and then ran in his room and acted like he was asleep. I was shocked, to say the least. But I told him through the door, that I love him no matter what, those kinds of things don't determine whether or not I love him. I did go into the garage and cry my eyes out. Only because I don't want to see him be hated by closed minded people for no reason. Also, this came about after he got his iPhone, and had been spending a little too much time online. I took the iphone, not because of what he told me, but because he had weird people texting him from xbox live, claiming they were kids, yet texting all hours of the night, and even during the day, when a KID would be in school. I have went in and set parental controls on the xbox and am monitering it ALOT closer. No more iphone, just too much access I can't control, and No thanks on that!!!! We also recently moved and he changed schools last year, and used to have a ton of friends, but for some reason, I just think this person he was talking to was trying to make him think certain things. Am I crazy to think this? Also, he's a very YOUNG acting 11 year old, compared with other kids his age. Seeing the suicide rate for gay kids, makes me want to cry, really, and I would NEVER have my son think I thought any less of him for that. Help!!!