Be patient, and work your way up. I had a similar problem the first time I tried penetrating myself. I realized I wasn't ready for something as thick as a hairbrush handle inside of me just yet, because it was my first time.
Take your time. Play. You have to be completely relaxed. He needs to get down there, put that tongue to work. Also very very gentle, use a dab of lube on his pinky. He will verr
y very gently insert his finger. Around
2 to 3 centimeters, he will come go the hymen. This is communication... He will need to apply some pressure and you need to tell him when then he will back off. Reapply pressure. Keep working it and keep relaxed. It will take probably 45 min to an hour to get the hymen stretched enoughr.
hi angel: be patient and see" female stuff" doctor about this. More common than you think.
And it may be hard to understand right now but penetration is just one aspect of healthy sexual relations. Young men especially are in a hurry about it---goal driven----but the cuddling--making out----cooing---all the other parts can still be there for you guys to play with. And play is the thing, Fun with it.
Penetration will come---enjoy what you do now----experiment. If you are afraid he will leave you after a while because of it?----well then he is not the boyFriend you want is he?
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