Vindicated!!

[Mizzztaylor]

Well...I finally talked to my ex. I told him about his nut job girl friend harassing me. He said he knew she called a couple of times but he didn't know the extent of it. But he did believe me. He's completely miserable and he finally admitted that he thinks she got pregnant on purpose!!! It gave me so much satisfaction.

[Mizzztaylor]

I don't trust her one bit. I don't want her anywhere near my daughter so I do think its beat this way.

[thirdtimemum]

Oh, and probably a good thing your daughter doesn't have visitation with him, I'd never let my kids go to their dads with a nutcase girlfriend being there!

[thirdtimemum]

Yes you're right, it is his mess and he has to deal with it. I try to keep the peace too with my ex husband for the sake of our two kids, all I talk to him about is the kids, I never get into any pleasantries! If you can be civil for the kids that's great, but that girlfriend of his is nothing of your concern, except her stalking you, it's all on his plate now. Let's hope he sorts her out!!

[Mizzztaylor]

I don't really care at this point if he doesn't see her. I honestly think she's better of without him. Although if he does want to see her I think she has the right to decide that for herself. I try to talk to him as little as possible. He sounds like he wants to see her but his girlfriend is holding their baby over his head. As far as I'm concerned, it's his mess he got himself into and I'm so grateful my daughter isn't anywhere near that mess. He just happened to call me the other night to check in with how she's doing and I confronted him about her driving past my house. He said that sounds like something she would do. He's totally with crazy.

[thirdtimemum]

Oh I didn't realise that! I thought she was pregnant now, that's awful he left you pregnant for her, I couldn't of imagined being alone through a pregnancy. Just goes to show the character of that man, and you are better off without him, sounds like the two would be a good match for each other! That's sad though that he's taken no interest in your daughter, but I'm sure you have more than made up for that mizz, you're a good mum!

[Mizzztaylor]

Third, he left me for her when I was 14 weeks pregnant and she "coincidentally" got pregnant too at the same time as me. Out babies are only 4 1/2 months apart. He's never even seen my baby. He provides her health care coverage so I have to talk to him occasionally but I'd rather not.

[thirdtimemum]

Omg! Is she pregnant now too? Unbelievable. Well at least he knows now, you did the right thing. And now he's tied to that nutcase forever now that they have a child together, karma is a real b@tch!!