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I really need some help..

Hey I've written on here a few times but I really can't help it!
Last year I did my driest post when I was pregnant with my daughter who's now 11 weeks old.
This was my situation.
Rebound guy dates: 16th - 26th October
Period: 27th - 1st November 6 day heavy flow normal period.
Ex boyfriend: 1-10th November.

I assumed she was my ex's from my dates.
But when she was born I thought she looked ALOT like the rebound guy..
So I got in contact with him and we did a DNA test through a company called DDC DNA Diagnostics Centre.
The text came back that he was not the father.
But I still can't help but worry.
The rebound guy is Afro-carribean and my ex-boyfriend is Portuguese.
My daughters lips are quite large. Don't get me wrong my lips are on the full side and my ex's lips aren't small but not big.
All my friends and family say she is my ex boyfriends. But something in my mind is telling me different due to her lips and sort of her nose.
Can somebody please talk to me about this.
Has anyone ever done a DNA test through DDC,?
I do admit I see a lot of similarities of my ex though.
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The DDC is quite reliable. They often do clean-up for other labs that have made mistakes.  If you can't keep from obsessing, you could get a different test done at whatever local lab is used by the family courts in your area, with your boyfriend.  But no amount of DNA tests can put psychological reasons (guilt, regret, shame or wishful thinking) to rest.  Only you can decide that you are willing to accept what the dates and the tests are telling you.
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I would also like to mention she doesn't look like the rebound guy anymore.
It's just some of her features are like his!!!
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What did the DNA test say??
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My first post*
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