Thank you for your advise, however I am going to go and get another test today 37 days after exposure hiv combo test results should be back at some point today, from a private clinic laboratory (tdl) Manchester Will give you the outcome and will promise to close the book there. Thank you once again
Thank you guys, just one more question for the last 5 weeks now I have lost a lot of weight. Could this be due to the anxiety and stress I have been going through?
You do not need to test further. Acceptance starts right from where you are at, your test at 30 days was conclusive and it's not likely to change any further.
It seems you are struggling with some underlying emotion, it could be fear of disease or guilt of cheating etc for that you will need a one on one session with a counselor. As stated by others, HIV is not your concern.
You did have a risk, obviously. But you've now tested with a combo (4th generation Duo test) at 30 days which is conclusive. You did not get HIV. From a single encounter or two of unprotected vaginal sex, the incidence of HIV transmission is very low. But since you have a wife, don't put her at risk like that. If you have to step out of your marriage, use condoms. Block the lady texting you and move on. You didn't get HIV from this.