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Worried that i'm pregnant..

So i'm 16 and only recently did I loose my virginity with my boyfriend (around 2 weeks ago) since then we've had sex a few more times (3 more times to be exact) The first time we used a condom although it was a bit small and he struggles to get it on. We still did it and it stayed on reasonably well, but to make sure he used to pull out method and he pulled out quite early to make sure. The second time we didn't use a condom and it was kind of a spare of the moment thing. He used the pull out method and used his hands for a sold 2 mins to *** and he went to the toilet beforehand (because of the risk of semen in pre***). We've been really careful about stuff like oral sex just in case lets say I give him a ** and then kiss him after he *** and then he continues to give me oral sex as a precaution. The last few times we did it with a condom again but again they were ones that were a bit small. They never came off or anything but... theres obviously that risk. He never came the last few times but he didn't go to the toilet beforehand. My period should be coming up around the end of this month and i'm stressing that I could be pregnant. I haven't experienced any symptoms such as bleeding, spotting, cramps (except after the first time because obviously being a virgin it was going to hurt slightly but it wasn't really bad or anything) I haven't felt nauseous other than when i'm stressing tbh nothing really has changed, I haven't really felt any different in myself, but im just really stressing about this even though we took all the precautions. And no the condom didn't break at any stage. It's been a day since we last had sex. But it's been at least 2 weeks since the first time we had sex. So I'm wondering when should I have started feeling any symptoms and what are the earliest ones? f we did everything right is their anyway I could be pregnant?
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Cam, you have been reasonably cautious and pregnancy is improbable. Download a period tracker app and become familiar with your most fertile days and physical signs. Have him get the right size condoms, and if you wish you can use vaginal spermicide as double protection.

Your mom would surely prefer you to be properly protected rather than experience an unplanned pregnancy. Can you find a way to broach the subject without upsetting the apple cart.

Early signs of pregnancy can start a week before the hoped for period and can include weird cramps, unusual fatigue, emotions and appetite.
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Also i'm not on any sort of birth control as it isn't a subject I can just bring up with my parents. They are quite strict and I don't want them to have a change in adittude towards my boyfriend as they think he is really sweet and a gentlemen, and I feel like them knowing this would change their whole view on him even though in my opinion it's just two people exploring and showing each other love.
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