I had an affair in May of 2018. Not my brightest moment. I’ll post my dates as follows:
Mirena in place - June 2014 - May 25th or 27th 2018.
Unprotected sex (pull - out) May 21st - 27th (I’m almost positive it was the 21st, but my memory doesn’t always serve right)
***this was the last time with mr.wrong
-because of my guilt conscience, I allowed my husband to remove my Mirena on May 30th or June 1st, being completely naive to the fact if mr.wrongs sperm was still in me, I could become pregnant.
-Withdrawl bleed - two days after removal.
-Period or another bleed June 6th or 7th. It was short, only three days.
Because of my worrying of pregnancy from mr.wrong, I took many pregnancy tests throughout the month of June.
Positive test - June 29th.
*** note - I have a picture of the test, it was blue dye. I know when I took it, it wasn’t super dark. But I don’t know if because I took the picture the next day it dried, it a pretty solid positive.
- July 7th 2018. First ultrasound. (Transvaginal) No fetal pole. Irregular shaped gestation sac and a yolk sac.
- July 15th 2018. Second ultrasound (Transvaginal) Fetal pole detected measuring 5 weeks and 6 days. A due date of March 11th, gestation sac no longer irregular.
- baby grew accordingly from this day forward.
March 4th - baby born naturally 7lb6oz -19.5 inches long.
I never really worried much about paternity as my dates make sense to have conceived in June and not in May. But I unfortunately ran across a picture of mr.wrong as a toddler age on fb and coincidently noticed a similarity with my child. I don’t know if it’s a perception issue or maybe my dates are to close and I should have went ahead with the dna test. I’m so irritated with myself that I had become so naive to think, ok removed the Mirena, I’m obviously not pregnant by mr.wrong, let’s have a baby to clear my conscience. I have read into the depths of the internet. I know early ultrasounds are fairly accurate. I’ve also read that some women who have dates like mine do a dna test and the man the dates don’t match with ends up the biological father. I don’t know how I could have been pregnant almost 30 days prior and not have known or had gotten negative pregnancy tests until late June. Am I making things up in my own mind? Should I have gotten a test done to know for sure who the father of my child is? Help.