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Who is the father

I had sex with someone September 19th.. I got my period October 7th full heavy bleeding. Had sex with my now partner after my period between oct 14th-18th. Went to the doctors November 19 and was exactly 6 weeks pregnant. Who is the father I’m freaking out
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I know you already got an answer but I’m pretty sure you got pregnant AFTER your period, especially if it was a normal heavy period. Good luck with everything and congratulations on your baby
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The count of weeks of the pregnancy time period called "gestational age" doesn't start on the day you got pregnant, it starts on the day your last period began. When the doc told you on November 19 that you were "6 weeks pregnant," he was saying 4 weeks since conception. I assume you know this, because you're talking about what you learned in November and evidently haven't been freaking out all the months from then to now. Is there some new problem or has someone said something that is making you nervous?
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Oh I have been.. getting closer to the due date has given me major anxiety. Spoke to a different OB explained to her what happen, thinking she’d give me some reassurance of who the father could be but dead end. Just wanted to know there was no way I could’ve got pregnant with the first guy from September 19.
Probably the second doctor didn't give you reassurance because that can be a bottomless pit when the mother has unfounded anxiety. One day she wants reassurance, she gets reassured and says thanks, she feels great again. Next, she wants more reassurance and asks again. And so forth. Medical anxiety is like that. No amount of reassurance helps until the person herself realizes that her fears have no foundation, and it's hard on doctors and others from whom she demands reassurance.

It sounds from your first doc appointment (and the timing of your last period) that you got pregnant from the sex the week of October 14-18, probably closer to the 18th than the 14th. So, you tell me in what alternate reality that would have anything to do with sex on September 19. :-)
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