Why wouldn't your doctor do this?
Since you're in NYC, you might have to go to NJ to find a lab. NY has some law or rule or something that they won't do the WB. If your doctor won't do the WB, you should work with Terri Warren to get your blood work done. She has a list of labs. But your doctor has already said he will help you.
When this is done, you really need to get help for your anxiety. Your partner is a virgin, and you should be leaving her alone about this.