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Are my balls to small

My wife of one year made some comments about my balls. We were having sex and she felt my balls and said are you sure you have two balls? I told her yes and she said I don't know. She kept feeling and said it feels like you only have one ball. Another time when I was on top of she said I don't feel anything. I said what are you talking about. She said I don't feel your balls slapping against me. Then she said I don't hang low enough. I was shocked to hear this and now I think maybe I have small balls. Can she be comparing me with other men she had sex with that had big low hanging balls?  My balls are always tight but measure about 1 1/4 each. Are they small compared to other men she might have been with and her reason my saying that to me?
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So first, I can't explain why your wife said it. I don't know if they are small compared to men that she's been with. You'd definitely have to ask her that.

However, there is a wide variety of "normal" for testicle size, and if you are concerned that yours are small, have your doctor take a look. They are measured in volume, so a doctor measures, not you.

Also, hanging low - that varies widely from man to man. Just like breasts vary widely from woman to woman, penises and scrotums vary widely.

I don't know why she said it - if she said it out of concern for your health, curiosity, or something else. I don't know if she's been with other men or how many there were, if she has.

I'm sure you're just fine, but talk to your doctor if you're concerned. If you've never had a doctor examine the area, it's not a bad idea to have it done, just so you know it's all good.
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Thank you for getting back to me. I spoke with my wife an hour ago and asked her why she said it and if I was small compared with the guys she has been with. She said before she married me she was dating other guys. She said in the course of 2 years she dated 3 guys that had much larger balls than mine and told me don't be upset.  I asked her how much bigger she did not want to talk about it than she said the guys she dated one of their balls were bigger than my two balls put together and they hung about 5 1/2 inches and was the reason she said she could not feel my balls slapping against her which she was used to.  So now I know the truth. I will try to find out at least if my ball size is average. I know I cannot compare myself with those guys she has been with and cannot give her that slapping feeling which she seems to to likes for some reason.
Well, I'm sorry she said this. Even if it's something she's not really bothered by, it would have the same effect on her if you had said that her breasts were smaller/saggier/not as nice as your previous partners.

Thank you but for some reason it seems like she is bothered by not getting that same feeling or missing out on something when we have sex.  My balls only hang 2 inches can balls that she claims these guys had that hung 5 1/2 inches make a big difference in that slapping feeling she was getting  than mine which hang 2 inches?
Women are all different, and the slapping feeling has never done much for me, so I can't answer that.

What about trying different positions? If she's on top, or you're behind her on your sides, the slapping thing doesn't come into play like it does if you're on top or behind her.
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