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Can you get pregnant without penetration???? Help!!!

1 week ago my boyfriend came back into town (on work term in Chicago for his mechanical engineering school.) We agreed not to have sex because I have OCD and tend to over analyze everything and worry too much. I have finals coming up in college and did not want extra stress. We were running late however and took a shower together. We began kissing and he slid his penis between my thighs (halfway between my vagina and knee), slid it all the way through, then pushed up on my vagina with the shaft of his penis so that the tip was in the back of me and his testicals were more near my vagina. It lasted about 3 seconds. He then slid it back down (I believe) and pulled away from me. I am however really scared I could get pregnant from that. There was a recent ejaculation the night before (about 10 hours before the incident), but he had urinated twice since then. I am on my 4th month of yasmin birth control. That was the only time we were naked together since my last withdrawal bleed. I am due for my next withdrawal bleed in 9 days. Is there any way I could be pregnant from that? I am pretty sure the tip of his penis did not touch my vagina, or vaginal hole at all, but I am still pretty scared. There was NEVER any penetration. Please let me know what my chances are! Thank you!
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My boyfriend and I were fooling around tonight. We were really into it and we were nude. I got on top of him and rubbed on his penis. I was rubbing his sack and barely was touching his penis with my vagina. He was wet and I was too.. I didn't touch the tip of his penis but I still feel scared that maybe I could be pregnant.. Please help.
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me and my bf ,he didnt ejaculated on my vagina ...neither he penetrated me ...nor have he masturbated before that ,however  his penis touched my vagina nd nearby regions for a second or so ...on a safer side i took emergency pills.......after 5 days of taking pill i am bleeding and  blood is really dark accompanied by pain ...i m confused about everything...help
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You cannot get pregnant this way.  Unless a man penetrates you without a condom - a condom that does not break - you are not at risk for pregnancy.  Please buy condoms and/or get on birth control.  Emergency pills are meant for high-risk situations, not no-risk situations.  Emergency contraceptives are powerful and the mess with your hormones, and can cause extended, heavy bleeding (with pain).

If you are in severe pain, you should definitely go to the emergency department.
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So if there was no ejaculation and no direct contact between the organs, is it safe?
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So if there was no ejaculation and no direct contact between the organs, is it safe?
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As an OBGYN gynecologist, I will soon be starting my own website to answer questions related to these topics. The vast majority of this page truly has no clue, and are in no position to give advise concerning such serious dilemmas.

As for your question,
first occasion: No. she could not get pregnant due to the fact that your pre-ejaculatory fluid, if released, contained no sperm due to previous urination, eliminating sperm in the pathway.

Second occasion: No, that is only if you have not released any sperm around that her vaginal area. Pre-*** being brushed against the vagina has no effect if urination has occurred prior to the incident. HOWEVER, if actual sperm has been around her area, chances are small, however there is a very slight chance of pregnancy.

Please stay safe,
Dr. Helena M.D

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I’m just curious. What if it’s on the pool without any penetration but there’s a precum?
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Hi, I'll keep this short (any solid advice would help me out).

My girlfriend and I had fooled around a few times in the last month, on 2 occasions:
1. I only went in just with the tip, but I urinated before I masturbated  which was just a few hours before
2. I didn't even go in with the tip, but just a few brushes against her part, and I don't even think I had precum but let's just say I did have some. But I urinated many times that day and I don't think I masturbated that day at all.
I'm experienced at sex (not showing off haha), because I've had sex a lot with my ex and it was almost always unprotected and she didn't get pregnant nor did we catch any STDs. I can withdraw well.

My question: what are the chances my gf will be pregnant since I barely entered her vagina with very, very minimal sperm? Thanks.
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Ok, first of all, most of you are literally the dumbest people I have ever read questions from on the Internet. First, sperm lives for a few hours outside of the body. Inside of a vagina it can live for 3-5 days. Second, no you %100 cannot get pregnant from anyone ejaculating on your breasts, stomach, ***, hair, feet, or anywhere else that's not your vagina that all of you are worried about. Yes, there is a SMALL chance from anal sex, but only because it is so close to the vagina. About the chance of you hitting the lottery. Next, if a guy ejaculates IN your ***, same thing. Not likely to get pregnant because there ARE NO REPRODUCTIVE ORGANS IN YOUR ***. Also, everyone posting about your boyfriend ejaculating on the bed near you and putting his penis between your thighs and wondering if you're pregnant are ridiculously uneducated and NONE of you should even be having sex. Period. Most of you are just being EXTREMELY paranoid and need to relax. Lastly, to everyone giving advice on here, stop. You're wrong.
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omg i need help I am only 15 and me and my boyfriend and Anal Sex but his **** did not go in all the way when he pulled out he cam on my but and I am afraid I am pregnant I was also on like the last days of my period please someone help me now please I am so scared I have to much going for myself!!!!!
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im a virgin but a guys **** has been rubbed on my ***** but he never cummed on my ***** but i haven't gotten my period yet idk what to do?
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Me and my bf were in a field and he was doing what boys do and once he had *** he stop and we were lying next to each other for like half hour then he layed on top of me his penis just on my stomuch then we were talking and he moved down and his penis went in my vagina the whole way for like to 60seconds is there a chance I could be pregnant? Please help im not that old and im scared :(
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Did you become pregnant, because I'm in the same situation and I'm also 16
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Me and my bf were messing around last night and idk if he came near my vagina whole or not. He says he is absolutely sure that I can't get pregnant without penetration (I'm a virgin) and there is no way I could get pregnant. He told me he has done a lot of research on this and to not listen to the Internet but I'm still worried can I get pregnant???? I'm 16 and have never done anything like this before please help me
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plz help me m worried ....
me n my
gf wer juz hvng fun...
wd both hvng clothes...
i rubbd my penis on her vagina
hvng my shorts n underwear; insyd dat..
n she was also in her clothes...
i had orgasm in my clothes only..
after about 15 mins i placd my penis at
her entrance ?? jz touchd for about
10sec...
will she get pregnant ??
n after some time i was strokin my, penis
n then fingured her deep ...
will she get pregnant ??
this happened around 7-10days after her
periods ...
n nw its been 20 days to the scene ..
any possibility of gettng pregnant ??
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Im17 and me and my 19 year old bf were messing around touching and stuff and he came in the bed but not near my vagina at all....but i am late. I was on birth control pills but had forgotten to take them this month....do you think i could be pregnant or im just off schedule because of the pills? Im freakin out here!!!
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Okay sorry this is kinda long...but im nervous!
Okay, I have been FREAKING out. I'm driving my boyfriend crazy because he thinks I am fine. I was supposed to take my first pill on a Saturday ( I have been on cryselle for almost 2 years now), but was out of town. I took it right when I got home, so I was 3.5 hours late taking it but I did take it the same day. I made sure to use protection that night and the next day, but haven't been using condoms since. EVer since that last Saturday, I've been taking them at the regular time, 7:00. I guess the reason that really worries me is that the following Thursday my boyfriend and I had sex without a condom. He pulled out and went onto my stomach, but as he was moving off of me he had a drip of *** that wasn't off and I thought I saw it fall on my vagina, but am not sure. I was told that once sperm hits oxygen it dies, is this true? And what are the odds of it falling into my vagina? Since you cannot get Plan B if you take your birth control regularly, I went a got an ovulation kit. I got the first response one, are you familar with this? I took one Friday morning and it said that I was not ovulating ( this would have been day 11 of my cycle). For this test (if you are not familar) there are two lines visible. The reference line is one and that will always remain the same color. If the test line is darker than the reference line or same color, than you are ovulating. For no LG Surger there can be a line in the test line that is fainter than the reference line or no line at all. Friday morning I had a faint line, but I took one Sunday and I had no line at all. Is there a difference. Also, if I forgot to take one on SAturday, what are the odds of me just ovulating that day( would have been day 12 of cycle). I know what you are on birth control they say you don't ovulate, but the lines really confused me. I am literally almost making myself sick over this bc I am so worried. Should I be worried? I need advice to calm my nerves bc it's too early to take a pregnancy test. (my period won't be here until late monday (June 25 or26).
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You cannot get pregnant if the penis was between the breasts.
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It's not possible to get pregnant from just rubbing against eachother in underwear and not penetrating right??
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i became wet in my underwear due to my boy friend,my periods arent coming now but we wont have penetration sex. Am scared pleeeeeees tell !!!
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Ok I wasn't wearing panties but he had boxers on. He had dried pre*** (not alot, and like 30 mins old) on them and he pressed into my vag with it. And he didnt *** after the first pre one. I'm also on The pill. How likely is it that I'll get preg?
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i need a urgent help!! My bf n i had g sex but he didnt insert his stuff on me,he was close to me but he certain he didnt pre *** on me + i took a pregnant test a week after n it show nagative but am still worried. Is there any chance i might get pregnant???
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my boyfriend and i fooled around, he tried penetrating his pennis into me but it did nt work, he also finger tiped me, and we did it for long, have never had sex but am worried if i could get pregnant. Help me.
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omg im worried plz help me i just want know what do and were to start it..
i know that after we had sex and he came out i run to the bathroom and wash my self.. but still would that help
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I'm really woried plz help me i had sex with my boyfriend last night and i dont take any medication, we also didn't use a condom is there way i can get pregnant-- I¨m so worried :(
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