I have been having the same problem, my anxiety limited me from doing everyday things, they thought it was a mix between anxiety and depression.... so was perscribed the snri to help me get motivated. It seems as if the opposite is occuring, if anything it has brought out worse anxiety and more stress/irratability during the day, also my dreams are weirder and i have that same out of body feeling, i am on 75mg by the way. I suggest u start supplementing magnesium in your diet, which is the bodies natural sedative, i also suggest u switch to a ssri instead to help purly with anxiety like lexapro. Too much norepinephrine will cause u much more stress and worse quality of life