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Not able to enter my wife's Vagina

Hi, I have recently got married. When me and my wife have sex i am not able to penetrate her vagina. I mean when i put my penis in her vagina only my head is able to go in. I tried to put my finger in her vagina to see if i am putting it in the right place but it didnt help. It felt as if there is just no place for my penis to go in. how ever in my previous sex with my ex girl friend i was able to put my full penis in her vagina. I can not understand as to why i am not able to penetrate my wife's vagina?
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392422 tn?1325789204
is your wife able to penetrate herself manually? she may be nervous and therefore her PC muscles will be tightened. the first few times you have sex it may be difficult but the more relaxed she becomes the easier it should be for you to penetrate her.


Best of Luck!
~S.A.
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her pelvic bone has shifted, see an Urologist & get x-rays. my ex doctor told me to try different positions. my new doc took x-rays and told me about my pelvis. my sex life was never a problem til now. i don't know if your wife has had any operations lately, i feel that they didn't put me back right. when my husband tries to enter it feels like he's hitting a bone. the pain is excruciating.. check it out with a Urologist. that's my next step. I feel for you & your wife. just remember its not you or her fault.
IN THE SAME BOAT
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332074 tn?1229560525
You might try using vibrator to get her started stretching out. Just start slow and use lots of lubrication.
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My God/wife had a vaginal sonogram everything according to the doctor appears to be okay. She said that when she tries to use Premarin the applicator will not enter for her. I also tried a vibrator with lube. I can maybe get one finger in her vagina. 63 year old and we do not want to give up on intimacy.
She had a vaginal sonogram? Did they insert the probe into her vagina? If they can do that, she should be able to insert the Premarin applicator, which is a whole lot smaller than the sonogram probe.

If everything is okay physically, is something happening psychologically?

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i guess your wife is still virgin and it's always hard to have sex(penetrate) for the first time.  it will be fine if u keep doing sex...
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