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Hi I have posted here before,I had a very bad experience in anal sex and it was my first time and Im a virgin, from that time I realize that maybe saying this is not so right but, it I masterbate I do not get wet...I used to get wet even by seeing a movie and now I feel that after that anal sex,after masterbation nothing comes out but before I had to clean myself so my much because I got so wet, can the anal sex caused some harm,please help me Im going crazy over this for a few months now, why dont I feel any wetness and anything coming out after orgasm anymore,I feel they are all stuck inside please help me ,I am completely dry in the vigina,even when I get hot,this is strange because I used to get wet by watching a movie,and I feel its inside my anus,I might be thinking this but where is the wetness gone to
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I understand what your saying but the problem is I though I will not get aroused but now I see that I do ,but after reaching orgasm the *** will not exit, I mean it feels like it is stuck inside, I have been readind so many things about anal sex these few months , when I reach orgasm the fluid or *** does not exit my vigina and I used to have alot of *** but now I can feel like it stays inside and does not come out,I read about anal sex and the harms is causes like can there be a fistula caused that I have read about on the internet.I do get aroused but the *** does not get out.I sometimes feel it is inside my anus. I am so scared so scared I cannot explain. why does the *** stay inside which in the past I had so much coming out.can this anal sex caused harm and I get itchy in the anal areaafter orgasm and before that.I just dont know why this fluid is stuck in and makes me feel bad, I feel like Im bloated and no matter what I do ot stays in.please can you help me more with this .please Im going out of my mind.,can that anal sex caused a fistula or something.please help me
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I understand what your saying but the problem is I though I will not get aroused but now I see that I do ,but after reaching orgasm the *** will not exit, I mean it feels like it is stuck inside, I have been readind so many things about anal sex these few months , when I reach orgasm the fluid or *** does not exit my vigina and I used to have alot of *** but now I can feel like it stays inside and does not come out,I read about anal sex and the harms is causes like can there be a fistula caused that I have read about on the internet.I do get aroused but the *** does not get out.I sometimes feel it is inside my anus. I am so scared so scared I cannot explain. why does the *** stay inside which in the past I had so much coming out.can this anal sex caused harm and I get itchy in the anal areaafter orgasm and before that.I just dont know why this fluid is stuck in and makes me feel bad, I feel like Im bloated and no matter what I do ot stays in.please can you help me more with this .please Im going out of my mind.,can that anal sex caused a fistula or something.please help me
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I would suggest that you do not get into any situation in the future that you are not comfortable with. I would suggest that you wait a bit before trying to get stimulated sexually.  I would try to enjoy other activities besides sex for a while to get your mind off it. Then later when you have had time to heal from your bad experiences then you can try again. Usually after a traumatic experience, it is difficult to try and be aroused immediately. This is normal. If after some time you have problems with arousal or anxiety, I suggest that you may go to a counselor or gynecologist that you trust to get help.
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