almost a whole month late, BFN tests

[GNatz]

Hi everyone, me and my partner have been trying to conceive for 6 months now with no luck yet.

My last period was on 15/08/11. It is now 11/10/11. I havent really had any symptoms except constipation, headaches on and off, gas and feeling bloated. These past 3 days ive been getting cramps on and off. Ive taken 5 tests at different intervals, all of them negative. These past few days ive been really depressed, crying the whole day. I cant even talk to my partner anymore, i just want to go away somewhere alone. Anyway since im cramping now i guess AF is gonna come knocking on my door. This time its really upset me. I think im going to stop trying now. Giving up for a bit.
Any idea why i missed a whole month. Ive always been regular, 30 days

[GNatz]

Thanks for your reply. My periods are normally on the same date every month or a day or 2 earlier so was very confused that i had missed a whole month and BFN. On the 15th of this month however AF decided to show up again. Atleast now i know nothing is wrong with me and i celebrated with a huge cup of coffee which i was laying off just incase :(
I guess it was the stress of trying to conceive and getting negative results every month. i think i need to stop trying for a bit although its hard coz im not getting any younger.
Its so annoying...wanting a baby can make u miss ur period, why cant it make you get pregnant.
Good luck to you! I will pray that this time your pregnancy goes to full term and you have a healthy and happy baby

[KingWife]

Hi sweetie, I been through that before but it wasn't a baby, the stress of wanting to concieved make us feel as though we are pregnant. Another reason for missing period is because Doctor told me even regular women have some irregularities some points in our lives. He says stress & can cause us to miss periods... Specially when we are trying to concieve because we are so attached of the idea of wanting a baby we feel symptoms & even miss periods when there is not even a baby. I been trying to concieve since last April 2010. Been off birth control for 2 years & I recently got pregnant & miscarriage... I might be prego again but so you know, God is a miracle worker what I would suggest for you to do is to go to your doctor and tell them your concern so they can do blood work to check if you have any HCG in your body... That would ease your mind. Good luck & never give up hopes. Just be a little less stress about it & allow God to guide you through this. God bless you ma.