Im not on clomid either and we have been trying to conceive since March 2011. I know exactly what you mean about Mother's Day. Have to celebrate it with my partners sisters who both have children and his son who cant stop talking about his mother and will buy all sorts of presents for her and show it to me. it hurts so much and then i feel like such a goose for feeling that way. what a vicious cycle.
Good luck to both of you and baby dust your way
i am not on clomid but have been ttc since October 2010. it's hard to face Mother's Day when we have no little one but instead, i celebrate my mother and the moms around me. i attempt to take the focus off of what i don't have and celebrate what i do. is it still hard, yes. does it hurt a little that i do not have a little one to call my own, yes. but i know one day it will happen and i just have to trust in that! many thoughts and prayers going out to all the women out there who are TTC.