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VENTING....A Sad SAHM...

May 14, 2008 - 2 comments

O.k let me breath.....I feel so ARGHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
First let me start by saying I am SO thankful of everything in my life! My kids,My dh.There healthy,happy,content!I am so lucky to be able to be a SAHM.And LOVE being here for EVERYTHING! Be there for every new thing.Especially Juliana.She just amazes me.How big she is now.How smart,active.And is learning something new everyday!And I am so lucky to be here when she does.

And I think even though I'm thankful,I feel as probably many SAHM's feel, I am being tooken for granted.I do my darnedest to have everything so perfect.Have every meal cooked,every bodys clothes washed.The house clean.I am just EXHAUSTED! I feel like a used dish rag! People just take,take ,take.Everyday the same,The same!

But do I get a thank you? Do I get a check? Do I even get a how was your day? The food was good? You look nice? O.k maybe my hair is a mess?Maybe I only slept 5 hrs? When was the last time I showered? I'm still there early in the morning to take kids to school.To make food.To care for baby!The only thank you I get is one little smile,The smile  my baby gives me when she sees me early in the morning.When I give her food.I can do no wrong.And that is the only thing making me not pull out my hair.And run down the street SCREAMING!I feel like I'm living the same day everyday.The same things always.And god forbid I get sick,or I want a day off,The house would fall apart! I wouldn't be a "GOOD" mom.I would not be doing MY "JOB"!

So why the reason for this vent? Why the sadness? Mothers day has come & gone.Mothers day should be every day! A mother NEVER stops.I know my mom never did.Or my g-mother or hers.I always wanted..as far back as I remember...playing with my dolls,dreaming of having a big family & being a mommy.But what my little brain didn't know is how sad it could be.How lonely.How much of your self gets lost.How much of your self you give.And yet never get anything in return.

I got nothing for mothers day.Not a card.Not a gift.Not a day,not even a hug! I don't expect much.But  WTH?NOTHING?Not my kids,not from there school (they were testing all wk).Not from my dh.That day has came & gone.I should have expected it,I guess.I should be used to it.But just like that little girl playing with her dolls I accept it.I don't like it.But I guess my present is seeing my kids grow up healthy,strong,responsible.Because I raised them.And maybe they're to young to acknowledge or even understand it now?But just like I did.Will be thankful,grateful?One day.......maybe one day?

July = Handful O.O

Mar 27, 2008 - 0 comments

Four more months.Four more months till I turn 31! July 1st will be bitter sweet:(.I will be 1 yr older,But my dd Karina will turn 9 the same day.She was born on my/our B-day.On July 28....sniffs,sniffs....Will be Juliana's 1st B-DAY!! 3 B-days in 1 month! Karina decided she wants to go to Disneyland(we live in S.Cali).Disneyland in mid July..OMG.It will be awesome since it will also be Juliana's 1st time there.I have already picked out Juliana's B-Day theme.Fairy Princess 1st.
I can not believe my baby is almost 1!?!?! It feels like just yesterday,that I had her.

Family

Jan 10, 2008 - 0 comments

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We had our new addition to our family 7/28/07.After a very sad year(2 deaths in dh's family) & a painfull ectopic m/c.I got pregnant in Nov. with my little girl.We named her Juliana Ailyn.My dh's name is Juan & mine Adriana so we combined the 2.We love her so much.She has fit into our craziness so well.And is a daddy's girl all the way.