May 13, 2015
How do you know when it's enough?
How do you know when to stay and continue fighting. I guess it comes down to full personal choice and disclosure. But how after all that has been done does someone move on. I don't mean move on from one another entirely, although that is in one way a sense. Yet in another sense how does one move forward from such things that have been the very things that have confined them to distrust, hurt and ultimately resent one another. Can people grow better together, yet grow apart ? I'm not sure what's happening. I'm not sure what to do. I know I love someone but I don't know if it's enough. It was enough to withstand the need of eachorher to get to a better place but now that we are on better terms in general, in situation, we are worse off between ourselves. Did we need eachorher to get to be stable and now no long need eachorher ? These are what feelings bring you too. We're creatures of habit but what habit ? The habit of filiarity of not wanting to start over, possibly. But Is it enough to grow in habit of one another and familiarity or will that ultimately lead to resentment and an unhappy life? How do you know what no one knows ?