Apr 13, 2010
So here is a rant about a friend of mine.. she knows damm well that DH and i have been ttc for years. She announced an unintentional pregnancy to me a few months ago,,, went out of her way to track me down emailing me and phoning cell and home saying to call her as soon as possible. I was worried that there was an emergency and so i called her in a panic. when i did call her back she says "guess what,,, i'm pregnant!" so of course i just about barfed but pretended to be thrilled for her and ended the conversation as quick as i could.
I have been trying to be as nice as possible to her but it is hard because she is so insensitive to my situation.
I saw on my call display that she called over the weekend but didnt leave a msg. I figured if she didnt leave a msg then it wasnt important. So i saw that she had tried to chat with me yesterday when on facebook but i was away from the computer. Then tonite i saw that she is trying to chat with me again.... she suckered me in again! I thought maybe she was gonna ask for some wedding advice or someting, but NOPE, all she said was "Hi" and when i said Hi back to her she says - guess what, i'm having a boy! She has never once in our conversations acknowledged our troubles.... so.... when i saw that she was having a boy, I put my cursor over the X and logged out of facebook. Not sure how to deal with this, so i will just avoid it. Like thats nice for her and i am happy for her but she is so insensitive I've had enough,,,, if i value our friendship i'm gonna have to tell her that she is unintentionally being hurtful. If I dont value it that much, I'm gonna have to set her free.
i guess eventually I'm going to have to acknowledge her news, but not today. i dont want to think about that anymore.