Dec 23, 2010
Ok so it took us roughly 3.5 years to get pregnant so needless to say we are really excited!! My friend Hollie and Krystal have both been saying since about four months before BFP that they would throw my shower. So everything is going great we have the date set for jan 30th I told my family in Arizona, (i live in illinois) my mom and sis have plane tickets and time off. Tuesday Hollie texted me and said she didn't think she could have the shower for me (it was suppose to be at her house). And she's known for three weeks that she couldn't do it but didn't know how to tell me!! No Apology just I can't do it. So I tell Krystal and at first she says ok we can have it at my house, then moments later it becomes let me check with hubby first (over controlling possessive hubby). She texted my today that because she's been sick (she's 12 weeks pregnant, she has morning well all day sickness) her husband said NO to the shower. Because she doesn't know how she will be feeling in 4 weeks!! H*ll I who knows how i'm going to feel in four weeks!! Oh By the way she works 12 hour shifts at a hospital and makes it through work just fine!! But i'm sure a 2 hour shower four weeks from know would be too much. Give me a break! I was sick for 13 weeks too but if the situation was reversed I wouldn't hesitate to throw either one of them a shower. So now I have to scramble to throw my own shower!! My BFF who lives 8 hours away is coming to help. I think what really bothers me is knowing that I obviously don't mean that much to either one of them, yeah I know stuff comes up and people get sick and maybe I shouldn't be upset. But I just wanted a small drama free baby shower. Oh and Krystal asked at the end of the text when we wanted to start planning hers... But I'm not so sure how I will be feeling with a 1 month old baby, planning her shower. Being the sucker that I am I'm sure I will still do it!!