Oct 03, 2011
So I have a friend who has been ttc just like me. When I got my bfp I thought of her because I didn't know how to tell her, I finally told her because I didn't want her hear from someone else. As I suspected she was crushed, she put on a brave face for me but I knew she was not ok after all I have been there. I don't know what worked for me which was even more discouraging because then I could even tell her what to try. I told my dh after that I should have at least given her my dr number and told him to talk to her husband and tell him if she wants the number to call me because for obvious reasons I didn't want to bring up the topic again. Yesterday I saw her and she was very depressed I tried talking to her about everything else except my pregnancy but eventually she broke down in tears. I nearly died, I didn't know what to say, fortunately her husband was ready to leave so she left. I was in a mess after, a part of me had hoped when I told her that i was pregnant she would have said "me too" but now i have to deal with her pain and I feel so bad.