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Mar 09, 2013 - 4 comments

So I'm starting to think that me getting preggo may never happen. I have been doing so much research about dh situation and sometimes depending on what type he has it is permanent. We Will not know exactly what type he has until out RE appt. My mind is all over the place. It makes me sad to think about it not happening. I'm trying to be as hopeful as I can but its not helping.

Dh has azosperinia. It basically means when he ejaculates there is no sperm in the semen. Now it can be broken down into two different categories. The one think dh has is obstructive azosperinia which means there is a blockage somewhere preventing the sperm from coming out. I think dh has this because as some of you know he was in a motorcycle accident and of course there was trauma in his stomach , pelvic and etc region. During the time of him being in the hospital the doctors never mentioned that he would not be able to have any more kids(dh has a daughter from a previous marriage), but I think at that time the doctors concern was to save his life. Even if he was not able to have kids wouldn't the doctors have told him that? I mean that obviously knew he had trauma?

Our RE appt is not until may which seems like forever. I want to do something to at least see if it helps. I been reading a lot about fertilaid for men. I read Success stories about men who have the Same condition as dh and it worked for them. There was nothing but positive stories. Some may have not gotten preggo but the fertilaid definitely increased the sperm count. I wanna give it a try but I'm skeptical.  I asked my nurse what she thought and she said i should wait until the appt to see what the RE says because he could give dh something better. That would be great i just dont wanna wait. I feel like i can at least try something. What do you ladies think?

I'm venting but I could really use some advice.

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by retta483, Mar 10, 2013
:( have you talked to the re about dh taking clomid . Or maybe get a sperm donor ?? I'm sorry :( wish there was something more I could tell you . If he has a blockage then i dont think clomid or fertile aid will help I could be wrong but dont seem like it would help.

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by TTC2006, Mar 10, 2013
I wouldn't wait to start him on vitamins.  It won't hurt anything and if the dr has something better, great, he can switch then.  If not, you already have several months of these vitamins in his system.  

Good luck!

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by Sherri90049, Mar 10, 2013
What a bizarre thing for the nurse to say! To wait for to months and not take vitamins? That's just ridiculous! You should start him on them IMMEDIATELY! Maybe it won't help, but maybe it will! I have read all those same success stories. You have nothing to lose. (I think it costs less than $30.00.) If he takes them religiously for two months, maybe you'll have some results before your May appt. Try to stay positive! Hang in there!!!

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by yoha919, Mar 10, 2013
aww sissy me and you have a great friendship and im a little sad that you cant tell me these things sometimes idk if its because hes always there but you know im always going to have your back i say go ahead with the vitamins you have nothing to loose for real and i know god has plans for you and james is just hard to believe you know? love you girl and i do care for you guys a lot i hope this can just hurry up all this heartache and just fast foward to a solution one you go to the re is prob going to go pretty fast!

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