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Jun 29, 2013 - 16 comments

To whom it may concern:
       We here on medhelp are here because we can't share our pain and suffering ( no offense) with the real world. We sometimes say things in our journals that hurt the people  we are closest to and who  have helped us through so many sad times and happy ones, but we truly don't mean to because without you would be a terrible tragedy!  So I write this for all my sistas who are jealous, angry and mad but not directed to any specific person and for those who say things without thinking, this is our safe haven! We need to remember those nights while crying in pain due to the MC that we suffered from or the big fat effen BFN that made us curl into a ball in the fetal position and get no comfort from our significant other. Please forgive me if my words are not as eloquent as others, I do try. What I'm trying to say is this is OUR Place to VENT! I've been gone for a while but I've missed you! So please be kind, use kind words and most of all Forgive!
Love Hugs kisses and SSBD

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by CarrieannB, Jun 29, 2013
Hi Mel
Lovely words and I can so relate to where you are coming from.  
Yes, this is a great place to vent and to share words, feelings and emotions with other women who have either walked, or are walking, a very similar path to ourselves.
Like you I send buckets of SSBD to all of the amazing women here.
Big cyber hugs and kisses

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by butterflybabies, Jun 29, 2013
I dont think there is anything to forgive. People take things to personally on here. Unless someone comes right out and specifically calls you out on something then you should take it personally. I cant tell you how many times I have wrote in my own journals how much I was happy for my preggo friends but hated them at the same time. Yes you are happy for them but sad for you and you are entitled to feel anyway you want. Anyone who has struggled to conceive or had a m/c has felt this way. If they say they havent they are lying. Seriously to much drama on here. Everyone just needs to chill.. Thats just my thought on this subject.

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by plumber43, Jun 29, 2013
No drama allowed! hugs only

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by butterflybabies, Jun 29, 2013
Sending hugs to you!

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by pb95, Jun 30, 2013
hugs means love

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by plumber43, Jun 30, 2013
Yes it does!

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by hopeitworks, Jun 30, 2013
NOt sure what I missed cant imagine you would offend someone :)

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by plumber43, Jun 30, 2013
No not me. Just a statement in general. I had a friend hurt by a friend for sharing and I felt sad so I just wanted to remind US why we came here!
Love Mel

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by renae176, Jun 30, 2013
thanks Plumber, i really appreciate EVERYTHING u have done in the short days i have known you, we have so much in common i was shocked, all i can say is thank you HUGS to u

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by yoha919, Jun 30, 2013
is simple the way I feel..i feel like we are all grown women on here it shouldn't be like this is a shame sometimes.

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by melimeli, Jul 01, 2013
This is so true,  you guys know more about my marriage than anyone else.  I love the friends on here so much because I don't have to censor what I say about what I am feeling in my personal life.  We support here, that is all I come here to do

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by plumber43, Jul 01, 2013
That's what I want us to remember!

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by krichar, Jul 01, 2013
Here, here!! Perfectly put :)

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by journey2motherhood, Jul 01, 2013
Well said!

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by renae176, Jul 21, 2013
Thank you so much Mel, I havent talked to you lately but i hope everything is well , and i u were ok after surgery i just havent been on MH much, but again i hope everything is great let me know when your transfer is , ill have to say a prayer for you, HUGS

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by Kricket212, Sep 03, 2013
I noticed your nice journal & Wanted to say that I am so happy for you CONGRATS!!!  I know we had our differences...but what you wrote summed it up.  Enjoy every minute of your little one

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