14 dpo but still BFN

[Moila]

Hello everyone, I am newbie in this forum.
I am currently 14 Dpo, 10 days late, used 2 HPT on cycle 9 & 14. both result are BFN :(( ..  I'm thinking to wait for another week b4 taking another test, maybe HPT (again!) or, if still late then blood test. Do you think I still hv a chance ?.. extreme gassy, constipation, sore bb's, dry lips & increase appetite.
Could i hv an Ectopic pregnancy? I understand that there is now way we could found put ourselves until its over between ectopic & not, are similar symptoms.
We have been TTC for little over 3 years, both healthy & even tried 3 cycle of IUI but failed. Have been so exhausted with all the options, now only facing invitro procedure as the only answer.
So after so many months actually this time is the only time we did 'au naturel' without chlomid .. ** we could only cross our finger!! .. I can's stand the anticipation for another week though

[Moila]

AF came this morning, it was late for me as over 18 DPO..:((.. & 12 days from when it supposed to be ..:(

[Moila]

Hi,  
Appreciate for your answer..
I;m actually on 10th cycle day already or AF was supposedly came on 30th April .. I felt totally bloated, also rather fatigue these past weeks.. anyway .. you are right I should take a blood test.. Now I just need to make the time for lab work referral..
Thank you !!

[Super_sally888]

Hi,

usually AF would come about 14 - 15 days after ovulation (14 DPO).  Most women have a 14 day luteal phase?  IF this is the case you are only just late.

You could wait another week and test (many women don't necessarily get BFP immediately that their period is due).

Are your cycles usually very regular?  If you are more than a couple of days late, I think you should go for a blood test already.  To find out for sure and put your mind at rest.

Baby dust!