I started dating a guy who has Asperger's. On the first date he told me that and also told me he loves me. On a second and third he said he wants to marry me and that I am the one, . When we are together he always hugs and kisses me non stop. However, in between dates he doesn't text or call unless there is a change in plans or to clarify plans. Why is that? It's like out of sight, out of mind almost. It's very difficult for me and I told him to text or call because I can't be in a relationship otherwise and still nothing, only to clarify or cancel plans does he call me.