I have a 7 year old boy who has been diagnosed with ADHD. He is on Focalin XR 5mg and Strattera 20mg. He has always been "spirited" in the manner that he is is fairly intense. While we have done many behavior modification techniques, he still can be difficult. Lately he has been very negative in his attitude and by the end of the day, he sometimes reacts with fits of crying and screaming to something he doesn't like (for example if I say no to watching TV or if we go to an activity such as swimming that he doesn't want to go to). He calls me "the meanest person in the world,", says I yell at him all the time, and takes his anger out on me, specifically.
He also plays hockey (which he loves with a passion). His helmet didn't fit properly, so we put some extra helmet pads inside to make it more secure. The pads rub on his hair to make little patches of tangles. These apparantly bug him, and he started pulling out his hair. We have now added a helmet liner, so the tangles are mostly gone, but he has continued rubbing and pulling out his hair. We have spoken to him many times, but he continues to do it. He now has a few bald patches in his hair. He sort of giggles and doesn't seem to take it very serious, but I worry about this behavior a lot. I don't want it to turn into a compulsion. I don't know if it is a "phase" or something more. How can I tell?! What techniques can I use to get him to stop and at what point do I get concerned and tell his provider?
Sorry for the lengthy history, but it all seems part of the story. Thank you for your time.