Recently we have discovered that there is a smell of urine in my sons room. We were confused because although both boys occasionally wet the bed, they were overnights so that is not as big a deal. This continued to confound my husband and myself, not to mention my older son(6) who swore that he had not messed, and could show us the clean overnights.
This afternoon I put my younger son in for a nap at his regular naptime. He was VERY angry and didn't want to go. His request was denied. After a few minutes I decided to go up to his room and talk to him about how it wasn't a punishment and that he just seemed tired, so should rest (we had some company at the time). What I found was my almost 5 year old standing, pants down, on my older sons bed peeing on his pillow! Well this explains everything. I admit that I lost my cool and gave one good smack on the bum. Why would he do that? It is clearly not the first time and I need it to be the last time. What should I do? I understand probably needs some therapy help, but that is gonna be hard to find at his age and with such a significant speech delay... There is a right and a wrong way to proceed. Please help!