My 10 month old son is hitting all of his milestones. However, he rarely wants to do things I feel he should be doing such as holding his own bottle, sleeping through the night without interruption (he used to do it until 5.5 months) and holding his own cup to drink. Oddly he wants to spoon feed himself though. I used to chalk up the bottle holding thing to just enjoying the bonding between us while he feeds, but now I am thinking that he is just being, well, lazy. I usually give in and hold the bottle and cup because I am afraid that he won't get his daily intake of formua/juice... What do I do to make him more independent with these issues? He absolutely will not go to sleep at night without my 'help'. I have to lay down with him in my bed until he falls into a deep sleep, otherwise he wakes back up during the transition to the crib...help!
Also, he is showing, in my opinion, some forms of aggression. I lay on the floor while he climbs up on me to stand up on his own and he will take a few steps. While he is standing independently, he is starting to smack me in the face! We tell him 'No' sternly, but he simply will not quit. He also is starting to bite us. He has six teeth now and is otherwise showing no signs of further teething at this point in time. I think he is using the biting as some sort of 'aggression outlet' and does it to do it. I really do not know what to do to let him know that he cannot continue to do these things. I would hate to not play with him because of these issues, but I really need to know how to get him to stop so it can be more enjoyable. I have two older children who are 20 and 15, so all this baby discipline is pretty much new to me now......