My husband and I have our two young nieces in our care, long term. They have lived with us for 1 year 6 mos. following 4 mos. with their paternal grandmother. They were 1 yr. 10 mos. and 3 yrs. 8 mos. when they moved in. The older child is doing well. She has a bit of a sneaky lying problem, but that has greatly diminished over time. She does well in school, plays well with others and is an easy to love little girl. The younger child is making me crazy. She is a fit prone maniac. She is beyond stubborn and will scream "Oww, oww, oww." if put into time out. She hits and is cruel to her older sister. She doesn't share anything, ever. Her attitude is up, down, up down. She will be very happy, smiling and lovey. Then over any tiny thing, she flips out, first by shutting down, then when forced to go to time out or bed, she screams. She is no better behaved now than she was when she came. Because she seems to seek and bask in attention received from being bad, we have decided to ignore it. She is simply told what she did that was mean, put in time out with a timer on and left to holler. I think because she is not getting attention for her bad behavior, she has started wetting her pants. This is a new and disturbing twist. She starts preschool next fall and this isn't acceptable. For reference, she has been fully potty trained for 1 yr and 6 mos. She knows how to hold it to wait for a bathroom if we are out and about. She had very few accidents even when she was training. I actually suspect she may be bi-polar, but it seems odd to think that of a child this age.