angry child

[baburaja350]

hello
  my child is 10 years old son. i found some recent change in behavior(3month) like he do his work when i ask for several times,and by the times if he does he had a hurry to finish it,though his study is good but his handwriting is very bad and when i ask him to do it properly  he feel lazy and when i am strict he do it nicely but with crying.i have another kid she is 3 yrs old .my family is joint and he is very much pampered by his grandmother sometimes he use to threat me that he will say to his grand ma if i scold him and even sometime he threats me that he leave home.he used to bite his nail and shout a lot in home likes to watch cartoon and wrestling.i have tried a lot even a rewarding system if you behave properly but that doesnot work please help

[baburaja350]

how can i  be sure that he has a behavioral problem as sometimes he do his work so well that everyone in home amazed.he become fat nowadays loves to eat.sometime overeating.i have been to pediatrician but he told me that he is stubborn because of age please help

[Kevin Kennedy, Ph.D.]

You need some help re: managing the behavior, and it is also possible that there is some emotional disorder. Ask his pediatrician to refer him for a pediatric behavioral health evaluation. The clinician will rule out any emotional disorder and also be able to guide you about behavior management.