My son just turned 6 and has a 9 yr old brother and a 7 month old sister. He adores his sister, but Im wondering if any of the behavior he has been exhibiting lately is related to her birth. He has been washing his hands incessantly but wont dry it,if the towel has touched his penis. He refuses to hold his penis when he pees (this has been going on since before his sister was born) because he says its dirty (germ dirty). He has no problems with me bathing him (and his penis), but he wont wash it himself (he usually showers by himself, but the past 3 baths were with his sister (novelty of bathing in the tub with a sibling). He has been extremely moody. One minute he is at the top of the world and the next minute he is very angry at whomever has "wronged" him at that particular time (me, my husband, his brother, his cousin, etc). I hug him and reassure him when he feels wronged and tell him to take a bit of time to himself but he says that he doesnt know why he is so angry and upset (crying). Usually, after some "alone" time, he is more at an even keel, but then something else might set him off. At some point every day he is in a "mood". I should also tell you that he is extremely bright. He taught himself to read at 4 yrs old. he is very talented as an artist and has recently written 2 stories (fruits vs. vegetables in soccer and fruit vs. meats in bowling) - things that a 5 yr old doesnt normally write. I am having him evaluated for giftedness within the next month to see whether he should move to 2nd grade vs being in first grade (he just graduated kindergarten). Im thinking that the hand washing and penis non-touching thing is a phase. but the moodiness concerns me as there is depression on both sides of the family (on the paternal side it is medicated with Zoloft and/or paxil). Any help or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks