my 3 years old daughter rarely listen to me. she starts her days with "NO" and ends with "NO". i sometimes shout or request or just ignore, rarely a slap, timeouts, everythings but if she is in good mood, she listens but most of the time she suddenly start shouting, and say NO loudly and strongly. she scatters her all stuff all day. never picks it. dont wear colthes. if i want her to take bath she will not, but i dont want her to take bath like she took it yest, that she will do it. never weat socks or anything. cry too loud and abuses. misbehaves all day, hits me and her younger sister. still not trainned for poty stuff. i am giving her traing since one year cont. and lot of other problems. if i shout or say somethig strongly to not do she give me back same way. i dont know what to do. she dont sing rhymes oallr counting etc. always take that thing if doesnt not even belong to her , she start insisting to take that. she talks to boldly, start acting when i timeout. try to give me timeout