Hi, I had a growth on my abdomen that was a hard tiny bump. I thought it was an ingrown hair or a pimple. I would scratch at it, but it wouldnt go away, Instead it grew larger over a period of six weeks and I went to a dermatologist. The growth was removed with a scapel. They examined me and found no evidence of any other growths, and I was sent on my way. A week later they called and said I had molluscum and that it was nothing to worry about, and that if I had any further growths to come in and they would remove them. So then I went to the net and now Im flipping out from everything I have read about it being an std and a possible sign of hiv. I have been in a commited relationship with a woman for six years, she is the only one I have been with. I know her body very well and have not seen anything at all.
So now my dilemma. From what I have read it is possible she could have it and I would not see it. But I really trust her now. ( there were some indiscretions at the beginning of our relationship ) If I confront her and she has not been with anyone, she will think I have been with someone.
I have read about non sexual transmission in adults, but it seems very dubious to me that you could get it from non sexual contact.
My background info: Male 47 yo, many common allergies, history of idopathic hives, smoker.
I travel extensively for work and stay at many hotels/motels some of them less than clean, others downright scary.
(we have made many jokes over the years about catching something or bringing home unwanted pests in luggage)
My work is very physical and I like to take baths and use hottubs.
Her background: Female 44 yo, many common allergies, smoker. Health care worker with the elderly.
Question: Could this have come from anything other than sex. Thanks