Will i be replaced so easily? Forgotten for ever?

[Trio123]

I and my lady have been in a strong relationship for the past 5 years. It started at a very slow pace of promotions varying from friend to brother-sister to best friends ever to crush to lovers to hus and wife (sort - off)... we had a wonderful world of our own all dreamt and nurtured by being together all the time of the day by meeting in person, phone calls, texting, video calls and what so ever... u name it... we did it... Why, even our family and friends liked us together... with my mother being an exception...

We shared an amazing chemistry and understand of each other in any physical and mental emotions we were through...

Being designers, we helped each other's works and made the best for each other...

However, the last year, 2017, second half came with weird stuffs ranging from unexpected schedules, criticisms from clients and boss and all that weird stuff...

We tried our best to get it through... but all our efforts started failing eventually...

Eventually she lost interest in love... and started distancing... She doesnt support my views... she dont text or contact me... with me being the person who start the conversation, if so any... no video chats...

We faught and resolved many fights earlier... but either she cry and comes to me or i make it up with cuddles and surprises... we always got it resolved... we were inseperable... and never brought any other nto our world...

But now being 2 months post breakup... i tried my best to win her back... but she was firm with her decision that she wont come back now... may b in future.. not now...

She kept proving and telling me that she loves me and tells about me to other mens as well...

We even met a month back and when we talked it was a bit cold... but as we talked more about random stuffs... she had tears from her eyes... flowing out of control and asked me to hold her hand... she said she can never replace me ever... and may have to move on with my memmories....

Now our families have stepped in the game and has warned to never reach out to each other...

She blocked me on whatsapp and deleted her whatsapp from phone ever since... also blocked me out from all social media...

Her mother also requested me to never contact her again...

Now its been weeks since we have no contact... and she is far away from me...

I pray and wish her the best... all her life...

But... I still miss the person who she used to be once... and wonder... do she think of me or miss me when she is all alone? Can i be replaced so easily?

[specialmom]

It definitely doesn't sound like she is replacing you easily.  She's hurting like you are.  But for whatever reason has decided that you are not the person she should be with long term.  Short term pain now in order to gain a positive life in the future.  I'm not sure what she would say the problems were or why the break up was needed but she is sticking to it.  And that means your hands are tied. You have no choice but to try to move on yourself. This doesn't mean going out and trying to replace her or even dating. When you are hurting, that is the wrong tie to try to date. But self examination, exploring things you want to do in your life, working on yourself like your own career, your health, your friendships, etc.  And then when you are in a good place where you feel less hurt and longing for this relationship and person, then you can consider dating again. I know it hurts and am very VERY sorry you are hurting.  Hang in there.  Time does heal.  

[Trio123]

Thanks a lot for your support... I will always wish for her best and pray for the same... It just hurts to see how people change and end up blocking you... The same person who could not even block me a day earlier has ended up blocking me out for like weeks now... who thought will go mad if am not around... Has ended up not caring about me...