Hello.
First of all, if you're seeing doctors who give you a "blank look," you're seeing the wrong doctors. You need to see a specialist: a urologist who specializes in sexual issues.
The fact that you're not getting morning erections may indicate that there's a physiological cause. This can be diagnosed through an exam and various tests.
And, of course, this condition can affect you emotionally. I suspect that because it's difficult for you to stay erect, you worry and become anxious and this gets in the way of your ability to become aroused.
In addition to medical treatment, you may need some ideas about how to integrate this treatment into your sexuality in a way that can enhance rather than distract. Once you find out what's going on physically, write back, and we'll discuss your next steps. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
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