Thank you for your post.
From the point of view of HIV infection, the risk was very low, and that would only really be if there was ejaculation in the mouth. The symptoms that you describe are not typical of HIV seroconversion anyway. However they might be consistent with throat/mouth Gonorrhoea or even Chlamydia, common infection contracted through oral sex. You would need to have a swab and get the appropriate treatment.
All answers from anyone are welcomed
Thanks Do well, I have some great news 1st I have been on the Clydamicin for 4 days and now these symptoms are going away which leads me to believe that this was a bacterial infection versus viral, and secondly the guy I was with did a HIV test yesterday and it came out negative. So all in all I feel much better and the anxiety is gone. Thanks for all your help.