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A bad vacation/unrelenting worries.

Hi Drs,

My exposure is as follows -

1.anal fingering not sure if CSW tried to intentionally infect me by maybe pricking her finger. I think she had some lube on coz i wasnt sure if she was fingering my *** till like 2mins later.

2. Unprotected oral for bout 2mins or 3mins  (brief) and protected vaginal sex with condom

I went for a oraquick test at 3months though and it was -ve

However, the thing that worries me most is the anal fingering. I suspect that the gal may have intentionally tried to harm me probably prick her finger and than insert it into my ***... maybe shes vengeful... shes a csw... and taking it out on customers.. i know its not very likely but it could have happened shes a china woman... and i was on vacation in KL i know i did a terrible thing it was my first time and i utterly regret it.

Also ive been having white tonge now for almost 3 weeks since i noticed it it seems to be getting worst tried tooth brushing it, moutwash, didnt really work... So im paranoid maybe she really did that could i than be susceptible.

Also, i qns whether the test result, im thinking it might *touch wood* be a false -ve... which i sure hope it isnt this is because i read from google yes i know this is bad that persons with xlinked agammaglobulinemia often show false -ve im not sure if i have it though but i did have chronic otitis which was treated surgically 3x from 5-10yrs i think and bronchitis when i was very young... also tonsillectomy... so i am not sure if i have xlinked. Also, when i was younger not much was known of that genetic disorder (i live in Singapore) so i doubt they would have tried to diagnosed for that.

So hence, what if i do have xlinked agammaglobulinemia would 3 months be sufficient? would it have been accurate? Apart from my childhood years, ive rarely been sick...  so im not sure if my body would have produced antibodies for the oraquick test.

pls help me doc... hope to get better insights with ur input. thanks in advance.
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936016 tn?1332765604
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Hello

I really wouldn't test again. There is no need at all to do this.

Your test was fine.
best wishes, Sean
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Firstly happy holidays to all doctors. Next pls pls pls reply my thread im still very anxious should I get retested or has e 3 months been conclusive??
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Thank u for ur reply appreciate it alot! And e reason why I was worried about the vengeful csw was because I didn't ask her she asked me if wanted a butt massage thinking it was just innocent massage (because she was innocently massaging my back) I agreed. So I was afraid that she had intended to knowingly infect me. I know it seems ludicrous and I hope it is. Hopefully I'm fine just as my 3 months test suggests. Your words have put me at eased Dr Sean thank you mayb I really overly paranoid. Could I request for a last word from you seeing that i waited really long for your reply, please? Just like to ask considering my scenario would you consider my 3 months conclusive? Or should I go take another tests?

Thanks again in advance Dr!
Worried0110
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936016 tn?1332765604
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Good Morning

Sorry for the dealy - just loads and loads of quesdtions I'm afraid.

You asked:-


# My exposure is as follows -

1.anal fingering not sure if CSW tried to intentionally infect me by maybe pricking her finger. I think she had some lube on coz i wasnt sure if she was fingering my *** till like 2mins later.

2. Unprotected oral for bout 2mins or 3mins  (brief) and protected vaginal sex with condom

I went for a oraquick test at 3months though and it was -ve

However, the thing that worries me most is the anal fingering. I suspect that the gal may have intentionally tried to harm me probably prick her finger and than insert it into my ***... maybe shes vengeful... shes a csw... and taking it out on customers.. i know its not very likely but it could have happened shes a china woman... and i was on vacation in KL i know i did a terrible thing it was my first time and i utterly regret it.

WHY ON EARTH WOULD YOU THINK THAT SOMEONE WOULD BE INTENTIONALLY "VENGEFUL" AS YOU PUT IT? THIS IS SILLY - THE POOR WOMAN WAS JUST DOING HER JOB - AND YOU ASKED HER TO SO I THINK SAYING SHE'S A POTENTIALLY HOMICIDAL MANIAC IS A BIT EXTREME.

Also ive been having white tonge now for almost 3 weeks since i noticed it it seems to be getting worst tried tooth brushing it, moutwash, didnt really work... So im paranoid maybe she really did that could i than be susceptible.

THERE ARE LOTS OF BENIGN AND INNOCENT REASONS FOR WHITE TONGUES - I AM STILL NOT CONVINCED BY THE "VENGEFUL CSW" STORY I'M AFRAID

Also, i qns whether the test result, im thinking it might *touch wood* be a false -ve... which i sure hope it isnt this is because i read from google yes i know this is bad that persons with xlinked agammaglobulinemia often show false -ve im not sure if i have it though but i did have chronic otitis which was treated surgically 3x from 5-10yrs i think and bronchitis when i was very young... also tonsillectomy... so i am not sure if i have xlinked. Also, when i was younger not much was known of that genetic disorder (i live in Singapore) so i doubt they would have tried to diagnosed for that.

THIS IS NOT REASONABLE EITHER I'M AFRAID - SOUNDS AS THOUGH YOU ARE COMPLETELY OVERLY PARANOID

So hence, what if i do have xlinked agammaglobulinemia would 3 months be sufficient? would it have been accurate? Apart from my childhood years, ive rarely been sick...  so im not sure if my body would have produced antibodies for the oraquick test.

IF YOU THINK YOU HAVE XLINKED AGAMMAGLOBULINAEMIA - GO AND GET TESTED BY A HAEMATOLOGIST

pls help me doc... hope to get better insights with ur input. thanks in advance.

I'M SORRY OLD CHAP BUT I THINK YOU ARE PARANOID AND ALMOST DELUSIONAL - THERE IS NO REASON TO THINK THE CSW DELIBERATELY AND MALIGNLY INFECTED YOU AND THERE IS EQUALLY NO REASON AT ALL TO THINK THAT YOUR BLOOD HIV TEST WAS FALSE.

Best wishes, Sean
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Dr Sean Cummings,

I see u are online can u take time to reviewy thread and assess menplease? Appreciate alot. I've been waiting a loong time for any doctors to reply.
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Why hasn't anyone responded to your question?

This makes me worry that my recent question will not be responded to either, since yours has been up for more than 2 weeks.

Have you contacted MedHelp about this pay to use forum not being active?
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Hi Drs could anyone of you kindly answer this thread I know you guys are busy but this is a pay to ask forum and I did pay for some advice so I hope anyone of you can kindly provide an input to my questions above. I have been waiting a long time for your reply so I hope you guys can do so soon. Appreciate the work you are doing and thanks in advance.
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Hey Drs appreciate if u could reply and give an explaination of ur assessment on my thread. Thanks, I've been waiting many days.
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