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condom brake

Hello doctor.

I am writting to you because i want a second opinion so that i can put this behind and mentally rest since i have been thinking about this for the las 11 days.

11 days ago i had sex with a csw. I used the condom they provide in the burdel, so i assume it is cheap quality. When the csw tried to pu thw condom on me, it didnt fit, so she put both hands inside it and streched it really hard to fit it in. We than had vaginal intercouse for about 10 minutes until i ejaculated. She removed the condom but i didnt check if it had a samll hole or break in it. I am really scared that she might have mad a small whole when she streched it (she had long nails). I know the condom didnt completly break since i would have notice it when she took it off me.

1.I want to know what are the chances that by stretching the condom she might have made a small whole or crack?
2. Is it posibble for a condom to get a small hole but not completly break since i wasnt very erect?
3. If the condom did have a get a small whole what are the chances of me getting hiv?
4. Would i put my girlfriend at risk if i have unprotected sex with her?
5. Should i test?
6. I was advice not to take pep. Do you agree?
7. People say if a condom break it completly rips. But do you think it is possible to just get a little crack by stretching it?

I am really scared since 2 days ago i started having a really bad sore throat and i have about 4 itchy bumps in mi fore arm. I also felt warm yesterday although i didnt take my temperature.

I will really appreciatte your opinion docotr and will follow your advice.
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I also had unprotected sex with my girlfriend 6 days ago and she is having a really bad throat pain. Is this to eraly to be a manifestation of ars? If i have to pay again for you to answer about thos please let me know

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Doctor you never answered about mys symptoms. Just need a short answer. Do you think they are the ars or should i stop worriyng since they are defently not the ars?

Thank you, i will appreciate a short answer.

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1.I want to know what are the chances that by stretching the condom she might have made a small whole or crack?

I think this is a very very unlikely situation. Generally if condoms are going to rupture or burst they will do so very dramatically and completely burst like a balloon.


2. Is it posibble for a condom to get a small hole but not completly break since i wasnt very erect?

Again, I do not believe so.

3. If the condom did have a get a small whole what are the chances of me getting hiv?

I think the chances of this are extremely unlikely. If the lady concerned was HIV positive - which of course we don't know - then your chances of acquiring HIV through totally unprotected vaginal penetration are around 1 in 1000 to 1 in 1200. Given that you are worried that there may have been a hole you can't see I think the chances of this are miniscule.

4. Would i put my girlfriend at risk if i have unprotected sex with her?

If you have been having sex with anyone outside your relationship and you are yourself concerned that you may have acquired something then I think you should avoid having unprotected sex with your girlfriend until you have been tested for all common STD's.

5. Should i test?

I do not believe you were at risk. You though do believe so and there is another person this might affect - so yes, you should test for all common STD's.

6. I was advice not to take pep. Do you agree?

Yes, I think that is reasonable.

7. People say if a condom break it completly rips. But do you think it is possible to just get a little crack by stretching it?

No - I've answered this above for you already.


Best wishes, Sean

No more after this - I have already answered all your questions very fully - forgive me but I will not return to this question again. Best regards, Sean
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Doctor i want to update on my symptoms before you answer for the last time. I had throat pain for 3 days, extremly tired and sleepy for through out the day. I had some itchy bumps in my forearm but they have faded out and now i only have one which is much smaller. I have also experienced a lot of cough and for the las two days i have a lot of green mucos coming out when i cough or take a deep breath.

Do my symptoms sound like ars? Or do you think i might be a viral illness related to the winter?
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Doctor i have see you response other posts but not my follow up questions. Please help me answering them. I promise i wont post again. Thank you.

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I need help with you answering this follow up questions. Pleasee!

1.What do you think of my symptoms, do they sounf like the ars? Ive had green mocus in the morning where i have to spit a lot, like 3 itchy bumps in my forearm, and had 99.6 of temperature. Would ars have much stronger symptoms?

3. Do you agree with everybody in the community forum that say that when condoms break they break wid open and their is no question about wether they have broken or not?

4. Since my condom did not completly break, should i be confident that it stayed intact and forget this whole situation

5. The only time i had sex outside the relationship was this time. Do you think because of this event i might be puttong my girlfriend at risk.
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I am still awaiting you response to get this off my mind. Thank you doctor.
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Doctor, i will be awaiting for your kind response to my follow up questions.

Thank you very much!!!

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Thank you very much for your quick response doctor.

1.What do you think of my symptoms, do they sounf like the ars? Ive had green mocus in the morning where i have to spit a lot, like 3 itchy bumps in my forearm, and had 99.6 of temperature. Would ars have much stronger symptoms?

2. Have you ever heard or seen a xondom get a little crack by stretching it and wearing it like a sock?

3. Do you agree with everybody in the community forum that say that when condoms break they break wid open and their is no question about wether they have broken or not?

4. Since my condom did not completly break, should i be confident that it stayed intact and forget this whole situation?

5. The only time i had sex outside the relationship was this time. Do you think because of this event i might be puttong my girlfriend at risk.

This will be my las post. Thank you very much doctor for your words. You de a wondefull job. Please answer this las follow up questions so that i can forget about this event.
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936016 tn?1332765604
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Good Morning

You asked:-

1.I want to know what are the chances that by stretching the condom she might have made a small whole or crack?

I think this is a very very unlikely situation. Generally if condoms are going to rupture or burst they will do so very dramatically and completely burst like a balloon.


2. Is it posibble for a condom to get a small hole but not completly break since i wasnt very erect?

Again, I do not believe so.

3. If the condom did have a get a small whole what are the chances of me getting hiv?

I think the chances of this are extremely unlikely. If the lady concerned was HIV positive - which of course we don't know - then your chances of acquiring HIV through totally unprotected vaginal penetration are around 1 in 1000 to 1 in 1200. Given that you are worried that there may have been a hole you can't see I think the chances of this are miniscule.

4. Would i put my girlfriend at risk if i have unprotected sex with her?

If you have been having sex with anyone outside your relationship and you are yourself concerned that you may have acquired something then I think you should avoid having unprotected sex with your girlfriend until you have been tested for all common STD's.

5. Should i test?

I do not believe you were at risk. You though do believe so and there is another person this might affect - so yes, you should test for all common STD's.

6. I was advice not to take pep. Do you agree?

Yes, I think that is reasonable.

7. People say if a condom break it completly rips. But do you think it is possible to just get a little crack by stretching it?

No - I've answered this above for you already.


Best wishes, Sean

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