please please help

[chutia30]

very awkward situation
by chutia30, 4 minutes ago
dear Sirs ,

i am in a very awkward position can someone help me .

two days back i hired two prostitutes in dubai when i was heavily drunk , but i was aware of my actions .

i did not do Anything with prostitutes no anal , no oral , no vaginal , not even hand job .

just i slept between th e two prostitutes with my full clothes . but now my paranoid mind has started torturing me , my mind is saying both the prostitutes had sex with me , and i do not knew about it . i am sure it is not possible how come someone had sex with me without my knowledge ok i understand i was drunk , but that does not mean i will not feel anything , please please help


on internet it say speople get hiv when they are drunk , this thought is killing me

[H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.]

It is possible to get drunk enough to black out, and to have no memory of events that occurred.  You are the only one to judge whether that happened, but I doubt it.  If you have clear memories of how you felt and what you did when drunk, then you have no worries.  Worry about being "kicked out of my compnay" is irrational nonsense.  The only way anybody will know about this is if you tell them.

That's all for this thread.  I won't have any more comments or advice.

[chutia30]

dear doc ,

Thanks for your soothing words , i know i cannot do sex like this .

but only as a friend i want to know

is it possible a man can ride on women have sex and ejactulate inside her and he is not aware of the single thing , even if a man i s heavily drunk and he had sex he knows atleast he had sex in the mng ,

my paranoid mind i sthinking this thing from last five days and anytime i will be kicked out of my compnay plse help

[H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.]

Welcome to the forum.

I have no way of knowing whether you had sex with either of the sex workers; that's entirely up to you.  But it seems unlikely.

Certainly there is no risk for HIV if indeed you just slept in the same bed fully clothed.  And even if you did have sex with them, the chance you caught HIV was very low.  The chance either sex worker had HIV is very low.  Even if one of them was infected, HIV is less easily transmitted than most people think.  The chance of transmission for a single episode of unprotected vaginal sex averages 1 in 2,000.  That's equivalent to having sex with HIV infected women once daily for 5 years and maybe never catching the virus.

And of course the only way "people get HIV when they are drunk" is when alcohol impair judgment and they have unprotected sex.  In itself, being drunk is not a risk factor for HIV.

All is well.  You don't need HIV testing.

Regards--  HHH, MD