fingering risk with high risk pro

[dwarka]

doctor ,

i fingered a russian pro on my vacation in dubai yesterday say for approximate 30minutes , i had a 24 hr  old cut on my finger . it was not leaking blood  but the cut was deep as it occured by cutting apple from knife .  after fingering when i checked my finger by pressing th e cut , it emits a littleblood i am sure , what are my chances to get hiv , you still feel its no risk as it was leaking blood only when i was pressing it .

also i kissed all over her genitals not on her ***** directly nearby *****  , on her public hair can i get genital herpes like this , plse help

doc i neeed testing my wife has depicted something from my behaviour and insisting me to hav e sex ,  i am worried i can not do that please help

[Edward W Hook, MD]

HIV has never been transmitted by kissing, even deep kissing or masturbation, even if the person had cuts on the fingers/hands used for masturbation.  Even if your partner was infected, which is unlikely, there is no risk to you from the exposure you describe.  

As for "almost" oral sex - the quoted figure for HIV risk, if one has oral sex with an infected partner is less than 1 in 10,000 and, in my estimation that is too high. Some experts state there is no risk at all from oral sex.  Neither of us on this site have ever seen or reading the medical literature of a convincing instance in which HIV was passed by oral sex.  This includes by all of the people who had gum disease, cold sores, etc.

Bottom line- there is no risk to you.  You do not need testing and this exposure is not a reason to abstain from sex with your wife.  Take care. EWH

[dwarka]

dear doctor ,

there was also open mouthed kissing with her and yes i had gum problems , bleeding tooth etc , do you think i can get hsv-2 like this ( by open mouthed kissing ) bcoz after 1o days of the episode , i had a small one blister inside of my lip , which healed in two days . also i had blisters in my lips when i was child ( many times)

[dwarka]

dear doctor ,

inever did oral sex , i dont understand why u depicted kissing nera her genitals as oral sex ,

can hsv -2 pass by french kissing ,
last question and end of thread plse help

[Edward W Hook, MD]

I didn't depict it as oral sex.  It was less risk than oral sex.  I gave it as an example to be clear that your exposure was very low risk.  

If she has HSV (1 or 2), your could get it through oral contact with an infected area. this is very rare however. No testing is required.  If you do not develop lesions within 10 days of expsoure, you did not get HSV.  EWH