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Is this risky and do I need a test
Dear Doctor
Last week I met just a random guy we help each other out but there was a moment where he did oral on my penis about 3-4 second and also he was on top of me later using his hand helping me
1. about oral 3-4 second is it risky
2. on the back of my hand, there was a little wound(more like scar, no bleeding) is it possible to get contracted with hiv
3. by the time he was on top of me, my penis sometimes touch his penis and may be the area around his anus (but no penetration)
4. by the time i ejaculated he pass me a tissue, i used that to clean my hand and just a little touch on my tip of penis
5. after i wash my hand with just water, i touch the tip of my penis
all of these above, is it risky or am i just being too paraniod. Can you please clarify this. it drove me crazy for a week
p.s. i was the only one who ejaculated/ also there is no blood as far as i recalled
Last week I met just a random guy we help each other out but there was a moment where he did oral on my penis about 3-4 second and also he was on top of me later using his hand helping me
1. about oral 3-4 second is it risky
2. on the back of my hand, there was a little wound(more like scar, no bleeding) is it possible to get contracted with hiv
3. by the time he was on top of me, my penis sometimes touch his penis and may be the area around his anus (but no penetration)
4. by the time i ejaculated he pass me a tissue, i used that to clean my hand and just a little touch on my tip of penis
5. after i wash my hand with just water, i touch the tip of my penis
all of these above, is it risky or am i just being too paraniod. Can you please clarify this. it drove me crazy for a week
p.s. i was the only one who ejaculated/ also there is no blood as far as i recalled
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
This information does not change my opinion or advice. No STD causes the sort of appearance you describe on your penis; sounds to me like you're looking too closely and noticing minor variations in skin appearance, which probatly is no different than before. If you are convicned otherwise, see a doctor about it.
It's time to move along without worry. I won't have any more comments or advice, so that will end this thread.
It's time to move along without worry. I won't have any more comments or advice, so that will end this thread.
Dear doctor
Thank you so much for your response
However i still have one problem in my mind if before getting an oral sex, the partner split saliva on a tip of penis (which i did not know that there might have something else too). Is it also risky.
Also, the area nearby my penis tip have a little grey/black area (no spot no pus it is just flat and grey with pretty clear line). I also have te discharge. Is it a sign of any STD
Thank you for your kindness response in advance
Thank you so much for your response
However i still have one problem in my mind if before getting an oral sex, the partner split saliva on a tip of penis (which i did not know that there might have something else too). Is it also risky.
Also, the area nearby my penis tip have a little grey/black area (no spot no pus it is just flat and grey with pretty clear line). I also have te discharge. Is it a sign of any STD
Thank you for your kindness response in advance
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
I saw all these comments before I replied above. Gonorrhea is pretty common from oral sex, but HIV still is not. The two infections are very different; gonorrhea is transmitted far more easily.
However, given the very brief exposure, I'm inclined you caught gonorrhea. But if you're having pus or mucus discharging from the penis, gonorrhea could be the cause. No STD is likely to cause bleeding; that must have been from an injury. In any case, there is no point in speculating about it here or on any online forum. Feel free to let me know what is found after you have been professionally examined and I might have more to say.
However, given the very brief exposure, I'm inclined you caught gonorrhea. But if you're having pus or mucus discharging from the penis, gonorrhea could be the cause. No STD is likely to cause bleeding; that must have been from an injury. In any case, there is no point in speculating about it here or on any online forum. Feel free to let me know what is found after you have been professionally examined and I might have more to say.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Welcome to the forum and thanks for your question.
Although the reply you had on the community forum was brief, if was accurate. An exposure of this sort carries no risk for HIV, even if your partner was infected. Sexual transmission of HIV requires a bare penis (no condom) inside another person's vagina or rectum. To the specific questions:
1) If there is any risk at all by oral sex, it is exceedingly low; one estimate (by CDC) is once for every 20,000 exposures. That's equivalent to receiving BJs by infected partners once daily for 55 years before transmission might be expected. And your risk is even lower, given how brief the oral exposure was.
2-5) No risk at all from any of these occurrences.
If this is your only potential exposure, from a medical/risk standpoint, you do not need HIV testing. However, you are free to be tested if you find yourself worrying about it and need the negative result to call your fears. In that case, visit your local STD clinic or a doctor familiar with STDs, then follow the advice you receive there about exactly which tests are recommended and when to have them. Based on the exposures described, you definitely can expect negative results for HIV as well as for gonorrhea, chlamydia, or other STDs.
Regards-- HHH, MD
Although the reply you had on the community forum was brief, if was accurate. An exposure of this sort carries no risk for HIV, even if your partner was infected. Sexual transmission of HIV requires a bare penis (no condom) inside another person's vagina or rectum. To the specific questions:
1) If there is any risk at all by oral sex, it is exceedingly low; one estimate (by CDC) is once for every 20,000 exposures. That's equivalent to receiving BJs by infected partners once daily for 55 years before transmission might be expected. And your risk is even lower, given how brief the oral exposure was.
2-5) No risk at all from any of these occurrences.
If this is your only potential exposure, from a medical/risk standpoint, you do not need HIV testing. However, you are free to be tested if you find yourself worrying about it and need the negative result to call your fears. In that case, visit your local STD clinic or a doctor familiar with STDs, then follow the advice you receive there about exactly which tests are recommended and when to have them. Based on the exposures described, you definitely can expect negative results for HIV as well as for gonorrhea, chlamydia, or other STDs.
Regards-- HHH, MD
also, if the tip of my penis have a little bleeding by the time he was on top of me but no penetration, is it risky to get contracted with HIV
Sorry, now i also have some symptom related to gonorrhea
is it possible if gonorrhea get infected, so HIV ???
is it possible if gonorrhea get infected, so HIV ???
Also if i take NAT test after 9 days is it reliable???
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